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Old 01-27-2013, 08:19 PM
 
Location: OC/LA, California
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Originally Posted by lastwomanstanding View Post
If you want to see him, contact him. If not, let it go. No reason you can't reach out to him . . .
I don't think so. If he wants to see me then he will contact me and plan a date. Right?

I texted him saying Sunday was fine. He didn't text me saying we're not on anymore. Why would I text him?
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Old 01-27-2013, 08:20 PM
 
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It's not how they do it now. My husband had a 22-year-old QUIT HER JOB by text.

He called her on the phone to talk to her about it and she CRIED.
WRONG. It IS how you talk to people, if you want to actually CONVERSE. Texting does NOT allow a conversation to even take place.
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Old 01-27-2013, 08:25 PM
 
Location: Pa
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No it's just good manners, which is what people these days seem to lack.
Exactly. Not answering me or calling me (Chessie) is freaken rude. It tells me you aren't even trying. That I'm the back burner date.
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Old 01-27-2013, 08:26 PM
 
Location: OC/LA, California
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OK, so twice he's gotten impatient with you because you didn't respond right away. Is this the kind of guy you want to spend time on? Seems a little bit drama-ish.
He's a cool guy to hang out with. In addition, he's very handsome and has a really nice body. We haven't had sex but I could tell. I've seen girls checking him out. I didn't mind at all.
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Old 01-27-2013, 08:34 PM
 
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He's a cool guy to hang out with. In addition, he's very handsome and has a really nice body. We haven't had sex but I could tell. I've seen girls checking him out. I didn't mind at all.
Oh good Lord. Now you sound like you are 12.

No wonder you can't figure anything out.
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Old 01-27-2013, 08:36 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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WRONG. It IS how you talk to people, if you want to actually CONVERSE. Texting does NOT allow a conversation to even take place.
Settle down. I'm agreeing with you.
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Old 01-27-2013, 08:37 PM
 
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lol. Sounds like all physical to me.

Seems relatively typical of an early 20 something. The world has a way of putting things into perspective. It just takes time.
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Old 01-27-2013, 08:37 PM
 
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Oh good Lord. Now you sound like you are 12.

No wonder you can't figure anything out.
Different people look for different things. Attraction is important.
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Old 01-27-2013, 08:40 PM
 
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I don't think so. If he wants to see me then he will contact me and plan a date. Right?

I texted him saying Sunday was fine. He didn't text me saying we're not on anymore. Why would I text him?
Because you're sitting there (it seems) waiting to know what's up. You can text him and give him a half hour to respond, then go about your business if he doesn't confirm and figure there is no date. Or don't text but set a time limit as to how long you will be in limbo. Limbo drives me crazy. But maybe that's just me.
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Old 01-27-2013, 08:40 PM
 
Location: OC/LA, California
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Oh good Lord. Now you sound like you are 12.

No wonder you can't figure anything out.
Lol. He has other qualities that I like. I pointed those out to show that he could be a player.
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