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Old 02-12-2013, 02:35 PM
 
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He owns his own business. Something he was able to do because he didn't have kids.
a Taco stand???....living the dream I guess

 
Old 02-12-2013, 02:36 PM
 
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For some unexplained reason older women are told that divorced men are so terrific and we should date them instead of never married men our age. Why, no idea. Anyway, when it comes to divorce I would only consider men who were married civilly like at a courthouse. I don't consider men married in church unless (and only unless)they were annulled. Otherwise? probably not.

When it comes to divorce with kids though I only believe in divorce if there was abuse or cheating. Otherwise no, they are lacking morals and the idea that people tell me to date these men insults my religion and my morals.
Never being married is not some sort of badge that says you are better than those who have tried. Failure of a marriage is not black and white, it's more about a journey and story filled with hopefully as many good times as bad times.

If you don't want to date divorced men, great, then don't. But if you are indeed older you have to make some compromises if you want to find someone. No one is perfect. Again never having married doesn't mean anything other than inexperienced in marriage.
 
Old 02-12-2013, 02:36 PM
 
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perhaps I missed your response to this...but what is your position on the woman in the relationship..you almost get the impression that no matter what happened in the marriage you tend to think that the man is responsible for the breakup of the marriage..could I be wrong?
No most times it is the fault of BOTH.
 
Old 02-12-2013, 02:36 PM
 
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Maybe you like women?
 
Old 02-12-2013, 02:37 PM
 
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a Taco stand???....living the dream I guess
He owns a store.
 
Old 02-12-2013, 02:40 PM
 
Location: Keosauqua, Iowa
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Men with kids contact me on dating sites because they think I am desperate enough to want them and financially support them. Not desperate and no plans to support their kids and their ex wife.
In other words, they contact you because THEY are desperate.
 
Old 02-12-2013, 02:47 PM
 
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In other words, they contact you because THEY are desperate.
No because they think they can get anyone.
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