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Old 02-12-2013, 11:56 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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I am willing to be alone the rest of my life if it comes down to dating divorced dads or being alone.
Great.

 
Old 02-12-2013, 11:56 AM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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As long as people keep telling me I should be dating these men. I find it highly offensive when people tell me to date divorced dads.
How could anyone tell you whom to date if you didn't ask them whom to date?
 
Old 02-12-2013, 11:56 AM
 
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People come in all different flavors, sizes and experiences.

Those divorced men can potentially be the greatest you'll ever meet and that it was their ex that wanted out for potential selfish reasons.
If they were so good their ex wouldn't have wanted out. More than likely it's because they were horrible husbands. Besides, if I can't marry in church it's not a real marriage to me so why would I?
 
Old 02-12-2013, 11:57 AM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Yes I am judging them because they failed. I judge failures in all aspects but when it comes to divorced dads they need to make the marriage work except in extreme cases.
Often it's the divorced mother who failed to preserve the marriage and left the man. You may be lumping the good with the bad, but of course there's no easy way to tell.

On the flip side, single - and divorced - men are often uninterested in divorced - or sigle - mothers.
 
Old 02-12-2013, 11:58 AM
 
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You are incredibly judgmental about people. Good luck with all your cats
So because I refuse to date men without morals I will be alone? According to that only men lacking in morals are left. No thanks I will pass.
 
Old 02-12-2013, 11:58 AM
 
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Well, I never failed at marriage so yes I want someone who also didn't fail.

And some would consider you a failure because you haven't managed to appeal to a man enough to get him to ask you to marry him by now.

So where does that leave you?
 
Old 02-12-2013, 11:58 AM
 
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And some would consider you a failure because you haven't managed to appeal to a man enough to get him to ask you to marry him by now.

So where does that leave you?
Touche!
 
Old 02-12-2013, 11:58 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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If they were so good their ex wouldn't have wanted out. More than likely it's because they were horrible husbands. Besides, if I can't marry in church it's not a real marriage to me so why would I?
Well, all your relationships probably ended because you were a horrible girlfriend. Men should stay away from you since all of your past relationships ended in failure and it was probably your fault. And since you aren't a virgin - you aren't planning on wearing white at your wedding - are you?
 
Old 02-12-2013, 11:59 AM
 
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Or men in general. There's always going to be some kind of dealbreaker for IDDY. Self-sabotage is easier than opening oneself up to the possibility of getting hurt.
Yes lacking in morals is a dealbreaker and it should be. I don't want to be someone else's second.
 
Old 02-12-2013, 11:59 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Why wouldn't you even consider factors that lead up to divorce.

Cheating
Gambling problems
Shopaholic
Verbal abuser
Alcohlic
Pet abuser
Steals
Lazy to the extremes
Goes insane
Mean to children
Launders money
Doesn't talk to him
And more ....
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