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Old 02-12-2013, 01:11 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Idon'tdateyou View Post
Because civil marriage isn't considered a real marriage at church. I know it's harder to find men my age but am willing to take that chance.
I see. Either scenario is a promise though made with the intent of forever.

 
Old 02-12-2013, 01:11 PM
 
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Often it's the divorced mother who failed to preserve the marriage and left the man. You may be lumping the good with the bad, but of course there's no easy way to tell.

On the flip side, single - and divorced - men are often uninterested in divorced - or sigle - mothers.
Why divorced dads don't want to date single moms is bizarre. I think it boils down to many of these men are delusional. What can a divorced dad offer a childless woman that a childless man can't?
 
Old 02-12-2013, 01:11 PM
 
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The white = virgin thing is dumb, you guys. The fancy white dress is a sign of wealth, not purity.
 
Old 02-12-2013, 01:12 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Come on, Raena. Get with the program. Haven't you figured out by now that it's always the man's fault? Sheesh!
I forgot we hate men right?

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No, no, it's always the woman's fault!
Or do we hate women?


So confusing with narrowminded people.

I will tell you what, I hope the narrow minded find a mirror image of themself to date.

Karma he/she is a b*tch.
 
Old 02-12-2013, 01:13 PM
 
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I see. Either scenario is a promise though made with the intent of forever.
Church though is something else and I didn't make the rules, the church did. Personal I would generally avoid these men too but in a few cases it tends to be much younger men and this makes a difference to me as a 21 year old man is different than a 30 year old man.
 
Old 02-12-2013, 01:14 PM
 
Location: Arizona
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lol @ will smith gif
 
Old 02-12-2013, 01:15 PM
 
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Well you shouldn't be so easily offended. Perhaps those people realize something you dont which is that you probably need to lower your 'standards' if you are to find a good man. You seem like the type that is so focused on the details that you miss the whole point, a good man is a good man, whether he 'failed' at marriage or not.
A good man to me is childless and never married so no don't need to lower my standards. A good man more than likely doesn't fail at marriage especially if he has kids.
 
Old 02-12-2013, 01:17 PM
 
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But you admit that you were a horrible girlfriend and that's why all your boyfriends left you?

If you are so okay with being alone - why even start all these threads?

And are you going to wear white at your wedding even though you are not a virgin? Can you even have a true marriage before God given that you have already given yourself to someone else?
I wasn't a horrible girlfriend at all and never admitted that. In fact I was a fantastic girlfriend mostly. However I didn't marry any of my exes as I knew we weren't compatible.
 
Old 02-12-2013, 01:17 PM
 
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And are you going to wear white at your wedding even though you are not a virgin? Can you even have a true marriage before God given that you have already given yourself to someone else?
Maybe she's a born again virgin. Doesn't it grow back after awhile?

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The white = virgin thing is dumb, you guys. The fancy white dress is a sign of wealth, not purity.
Sadly, some people still believe in this. When I got engaged, my mother asked if I was going to wear a white dress and shouldn't because "after 7 years together, no one is going to believe you are still a virgin." Of course, she also thought my bridesmaids should wear hats and that I shouldn't have purple for one of my wedding colors despite that being my favorite color since birth. (Coincidentally to IDDY, my mother is also Catholic. Non-practicing, however).
 
Old 02-12-2013, 01:18 PM
 
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Where is taco man?!
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