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Old 02-20-2013, 06:45 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Originally Posted by JustJulia View Post
I understand the mindset more now, I guess, but that doesn't mesh with the GGG mindset, which I believe is a healthier and more positive approach to sex.
Whoa...GGG!!

Oh, wait...not what I was thinking .

[john thompson]

 
Old 02-20-2013, 06:48 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Originally Posted by MIKEETC View Post
Whoa...GGG!!

Oh, wait...not what I was thinking .

[john thompson]
Haha, NO. Dan Savage! Now I'm thinking of Cartman's mom in that German ******** movie.
 
Old 02-21-2013, 01:15 AM
 
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Originally Posted by Pikantari View Post
Why can't you just understand that there are those of us out here who set our own standards on this matter?
And why can you not understand that I am just giving you the counter opinions/standards on the matter. You keep moaning that you have a right to have and express an opinion but I never said you could not. I am only giving my opinion ON your opinion which I am equally entitled to do. And will continue to do.

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If a person does not agree with it and would not do it, that is their choice and they are free to express it.
Indeed but if while expressing it they express implicit or explicit judgements on others then I am free to express my opinion of that too. If selling or purchasing sex is against your standards - thats great! - simply do not do it.

But when a user rolls in telling us that people who DO choose to purchase or sell it are "unacceptable" or "have no/less self respect" then I am going to call them on that baseless judgemental nonsense. And as you keep pointlessly pointing out I am perfectly entitled to do so.
 
Old 02-21-2013, 02:36 AM
 
Location: Sometimes Miami sometimes Australia
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Originally Posted by jerseygal4u View Post
I don't know how it is more degrading than paying for sex.

The point is,why pay for it when you can get it for free?
I have had my need met during one night stands. They weren't sexual,but they were met.
Because like most things that are free, it is rarely good. Most free sex comes with conditions that you satisfy the man while your needs go unmet. Paying for it allows to choose when and how. Free sex rarely offers such flexibility
 
Old 02-21-2013, 03:52 AM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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I hear there's actually a thriving male escort trade in Bali, Indonesia. Some of the women interviewed said the Balinese men just treated them a lot better than men from their home country (doesn't that sound familiar, like a mirror image of what western men are saying). Granted, often the men would get gifts and stuff instead of cash, but they definitely were milking it.
 
Old 02-21-2013, 08:49 AM
 
Location: Way up high
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Hmmmmm
 
Old 02-21-2013, 10:53 AM
 
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Women who pay for sex are no different than the men who do the same.

Me? I've thought about it several times in my lifetime but I haven't done it. Forking out the cash for a good ***** seems like it could be a profitable experience but my conscience saves me and tells me that I can do a lot better which usually happens soon after.

If the ***** in question has all the right curves in all the right places and doesn't cost too much for her services, I might consider giving her my business. I'd sooner stick to getting sex from the divorced and separated moms who now look my way. Most of them have filled out and grown up which means they have some curves. These cougar moms know what they want and the cost is often minimal. Bring her some food, booze, smokes and a box of condoms. Now she's good to go.
 
Old 02-21-2013, 11:01 AM
 
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I think any man or woman who pays for sex is a loser.
Really?

I guess I'm a loser for getting what's owed to me after the wining and dining BS. The wine and the meal aren't part of the package???
 
Old 02-21-2013, 11:46 AM
 
Location: USA
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The point was that women don't have to be attractive to get sex at a bar or club
Yeah, but it's all about the quality in my mind. Do you really want to leave with a woman or a man for that manner who anyone could leave with? I really like the whole wining and dining part
 
Old 02-21-2013, 01:16 PM
 
Location: Calabasas, CA
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LOL at threads like this like its a common thing that women pay for sex. The OP didnt say "barter" and he didnt say "exchange" for sex, he said PAY for sex. Show me a woman who PAYS for sex and I'll show you one butt ugly woman. I mean, she must have a Patrick Ewing/Dikembe Mutombo face with a "Whats Eating Gilbert Grape"'s mother's body.
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