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Actually the OP is borderline escort/hooker. LOL. I never ask any guy for money or buy things for me. They just do and who am I to say no to their generosity?
My husband has bought stuff for me when we were dating. Stuff that made me swoon. He honestly had me at buying 4 tires for my car! LOL. And we weren't even intimate then.
Then when I finally fell in love with him because he bought me stuff that I didn't even ask for him to. He said he is not rich! LOL. That was was the week we decided to marry. well duh, I've been to his house, I know his job. So i told him - I KNOW! That I am not marrying him because I thought he has money or something.
what's important is that I know he will take care of me no matter what, and not just financially. So far, so good.
A male co-worker and I were having a conversation on our lunch break and he brought up the topic of golddigging and I must say he really struck a nerve. Well, he believes women should only ask a man for money if their married. I told him I think that is the dumbest excuse for being CHEAP! A few other male co-workers overheard our convo and agreed with him...figures since they all think I'm queen golddigger but I want to know what do you guys think? He also said he thinks its wrong for my bf to pay my car note and insurance and I refuse to live with him. What do you guys consider a golddigger?
In life you pay for what you want right? Well any man that wants any type of relationship with me has to pay to be with me. I don't demand money every hour on the hour but if I need something I need to know you got me. What's the point of me having a bf or husband hell even f buddy if I have to go without something I need or may want. And yes I said f buddy if he wants to meet up at motels or meet at his house he should be able to supply the gas right? What is the big deal with men not wanting to come off the Benjamins? When you die your not going to be buried with your money. Do men expect to be in a relationship and not foot the bill? If that's the case why be in a relationship? I won't lie I do a lil investigating before I get with a guy to make sure he has money hell I think everyone SHOULD. If this makes me a golddigger I take that as an honor ......
my bf to pay my car note and insurance....Well any man that wants any type of relationship with me has to pay to be with me.
You're definitely a gold digger and your sugar daddy boyfriend is just a chump. What kind of loser cant make their own way in this world and pay for their own material possessions. You're a loser and you need to get a job so you can pay for your own stuff.
Except no one can force you to pay for something against your will. If he offered to pay her car payment, there was no force involved. Even if she demanded that he do so he can very easily walk away laughing.
That's my thinking. I find it pretty appalling that a woman would expect a man to essentially pay to be in a relationship with her, but on the other hand I find it incredibly pathetic that the guy would agree to it. I want to feel badly for the guy, but I can't unless he literally has a five-year old child's mind and can't think rationally. It sounds like they may be almost perfect for each other.
Im jumping in here because I agree with every post in here besides TC.
I despise your kind! Your BF is a good guy and your ripping him to pieces. Karma...
Good guy ooh oookay... As far as karma I live it everyday
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LOL. That was was the week we decided to marry. well duh, I've been to his house, I know his job. So i told him - I KNOW! That I am not marrying him because I thought he has money or something.
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