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Old 02-20-2013, 06:08 AM
 
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A male co-worker and I were having a conversation on our lunch break and he brought up the topic of golddigging and I must say he really struck a nerve. Well, he believes women should only ask a man for money if their married. I told him I think that is the dumbest excuse for being CHEAP! A few other male co-workers overheard our convo and agreed with him...figures since they all think I'm queen golddigger but I want to know what do you guys think? He also said he thinks its wrong for my bf to pay my car note and insurance and I refuse to live with him. What do you guys consider a golddigger?


In life you pay for what you want right? Well any man that wants any type of relationship with me has to pay to be with me. I don't demand money every hour on the hour but if I need something I need to know you got me. What's the point of me having a bf or husband hell even f buddy if I have to go without something I need or may want. And yes I said f buddy if he wants to meet up at motels or meet at his house he should be able to supply the gas right? What is the big deal with men not wanting to come off the Benjamins? When you die your not going to be buried with your money. Do men expect to be in a relationship and not foot the bill? If that's the case why be in a relationship? I won't lie I do a lil investigating before I get with a guy to make sure he has money hell I think everyone SHOULD. If this makes me a golddigger I take that as an honor ......
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Old 02-20-2013, 06:23 AM
 
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A male co-worker and I were having a conversation on our lunch break and he brought up the topic of golddigging and I must say he really struck a nerve. Well, he believes women should only ask a man for money if their married. I told him I think that is the dumbest excuse for being CHEAP! A few other male co-workers overheard our convo and agreed with him...figures since they all think I'm queen golddigger but I want to know what do you guys think? He also said he thinks its wrong for my bf to pay my car note and insurance and I refuse to live with him. What do you guys consider a golddigger?


In life you pay for what you want right? Well any man that wants any type of relationship with me has to pay to be with me. I don't demand money every hour on the hour but if I need something I need to know you got me. What's the point of me having a bf or husband hell even f buddy if I have to go without something I need or may want. And yes I said f buddy if he wants to meet up at motels or meet at his house he should be able to supply the gas right? What is the big deal with men not wanting to come off the Benjamins? When you die your not going to be buried with your money. Do men expect to be in a relationship and not foot the bill? If that's the case why be in a relationship? I won't lie I do a lil investigating before I get with a guy to make sure he has money hell I think everyone SHOULD. If this makes me a golddigger I take that as an honor ......
Is this a troll thread? Your attitude sucks. If you were my gf and demanded money, I'd give you $2.50 a week. If you asked for more, I'd say .. nope, I already gave your allowance on Monday. Make that work. If you didn't like it, tough ... women like you are a dime a dozen. Next!
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Old 02-20-2013, 06:41 AM
 
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Where did I say anything about demading money? LMAO... 2.50 a wk....WOOOWWWW!!!!



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Is this a troll thread? Your attitude sucks. If you were my gf and demanded money, I'd give you $2.50 a week. If you asked for more, I'd say .. nope, I already gave your allowance on Monday. Make that work. If you didn't like it, tough ... women like you are a dime a dozen. Next!
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Old 02-20-2013, 06:56 AM
 
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What is the big deal with men not wanting to come off the Benjamins? When you die your not going to be buried with your money. Do men expect to be in a relationship and not foot the bill? If that's the case why be in a relationship? I won't lie I do a lil investigating before I get with a guy to make sure he has money hell I think everyone SHOULD. If this makes me a golddigger I take that as an honor ......



This is why I always laugh when women bash prostitutes. They think they are so superior or different to hookers, but there really isn't that much difference at all. Men always end up being forced to pay for it in one way or another.


Foot the bill, tho? I mean, really?


Wow....
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Old 02-20-2013, 06:58 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Congratulations, you're a golddigger.

The old Oscar Wilde quote can be updated: "A golddigger knows the price of everything and the value of nothing."

Did you want a high-five or something??
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Old 02-20-2013, 07:04 AM
 
Location: Houston, Tx
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I agree with your male co worker, and yes you sound like a gold digger.
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Old 02-20-2013, 07:06 AM
 
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Duhhhhh!


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Congratulations, you're a golddigger.
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Old 02-20-2013, 07:07 AM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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its wrong for my bf to pay my car note and insurance and I refuse to live with him. What do you guys consider a golddigger?
Yes, it's wrong. You fit the classic definition of a golddigger, and he is a wuss.
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Old 02-20-2013, 07:09 AM
 
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A male co-worker and I were having a conversation on our lunch break and he brought up the topic of golddigging and I must say he really struck a nerve. Well, he believes women should only ask a man for money if their married. I told him I think that is the dumbest excuse for being CHEAP! A few other male co-workers overheard our convo and agreed with him...figures since they all think I'm queen golddigger but I want to know what do you guys think? He also said he thinks its wrong for my bf to pay my car note and insurance and I refuse to live with him. What do you guys consider a golddigger?


In life you pay for what you want right? Well any man that wants any type of relationship with me has to pay to be with me. I don't demand money every hour on the hour but if I need something I need to know you got me. What's the point of me having a bf or husband hell even f buddy if I have to go without something I need or may want. And yes I said f buddy if he wants to meet up at motels or meet at his house he should be able to supply the gas right? What is the big deal with men not wanting to come off the Benjamins? When you die your not going to be buried with your money. Do men expect to be in a relationship and not foot the bill? If that's the case why be in a relationship? I won't lie I do a lil investigating before I get with a guy to make sure he has money hell I think everyone SHOULD. If this makes me a golddigger I take that as an honor ......
Hmmmmm, I wonder what profession that statement sounds like.

Anyway, good luck with that. If you find some sucker to pay your bills, fine. But most men would want nothing to do with you, with such a "give me" attitude.
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Old 02-20-2013, 07:11 AM
 
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I feel sorry for the "lucky" ladies in y'all lives....
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