Boyfriend has Dating Site on Browsing History and Denies Going To It (marriages, women)
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Boyfriend of 4+ years has match.com on his browsing history. I clicked it and the page came up for the site and it had a box which had "your last search....male searching for women 18-35 with 25 mls. of (our zip code showed up). He said he has never been there and it was an ad. I can understand if someone accidently clicked on an ad, but how would it have specifics like that? He said they prob. got the zip code from a cookie when he went to weather.com.
Most sites automatically know your zip code (or close to it) by the location of your ISP and your computer's IP address. As for the default age range search on various sites, I have no clue - go there yourself and see if it bothers you that much. It IS possible that he hit a link accidentally, or a site he visited had an advertising pop-up for match.
I did go there on my computer, and went out and then back to it....that didn't happen with me. So I filled in some "bogus" info, and didn't actually search for anyone (I am not interested in meeting anyone else but wanted to check to give him benefit of doubt). Then when I went back to it, that info I typed in did show up....just like his did. (He has pop ups blocked on his computer)
filihook, Wow! If I had your kind of thinking, I wouldn't have the need to post this. I have suspected him for a long time of cheating or looking to cheat. There were also two local hotel searches on his browsing history a few months ago (again, he said they were ads, prob. when he went to mapquest. He tells me all the time how faithful/devoted he is but doesn't seem as interested in me and hardly makes eye contact when he talks to me, plus the intimacy has gone downhill while at the same time he has to "adjust" himself just looking at an attractive woman (and in my presence). He has been through 2 marriages. Three is prob. not a charm and we did meet in a bar. I am just so in love with him and this is tearing me up to know the truth. But I know in my gut I am a total fool and making a bigger fool of myself by posting this and advertising my gullibility and stupidity.
This kind of happens on my yahoo account and I don't know how it knows how old I am or where my zip code is (because I don't enter any of that crap)...so I can see it from his end.
Only you know how much you can trust him, though.
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