Whoever Thinks Women Don't Go For Looks (date, singles, older)
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When I said looks, I meant whatever is the better look within the demographics a woman is looking at. If people want to see the lack of political correctness in action, white women on dating sites typically check the caucasian box in what they are looking for. If you're talking African-American, Denzel gets the foot in the door before the guy who looks like a crack dealer.
This is true. Most white women who have only dated white men continue so, unless someone of a different race absolutely WOWS them. I've had it happen a few times and it wasn't because of my looks, but more on my overall personality. In order for it to work though, a woman has to be open to dating outside her race. If not, than you're ultimately barking up the wrong tree.
All should be able to get in the door.
Equal opportunity.
What if you said "White is the foot in the door"?
Oh please. I suppose we should just decide who we are going to spend the rest of our lives with by drawing numbers out of a hat? I mean - we wouldn't want to be unequal or anything.
Looks matter, ok? If I don't like your looks, I'm not going to want to interact with you in a romantic way, so it would be a waste of both your time and mine.
I just think the ladies are a little more forgiving in terms of looks. Some guys are just brutual about womens looks. I know women can be too, I just have a feeling they aren't quite as bad about it as the guys are.
The truth is we all judge based on looks, especially when it comes to online. After all looks is all we have to go on. In real life there is more than looks and as we get to know someone the looks become less important and the person becomes more or less attractive based on other factors.
I just think the ladies are a little more forgiving in terms of looks. Some guys are just brutual about womens looks. I know women can be too, I just have a feeling they aren't quite as bad about it as the guys are.
Here's my super over-generalized sense of it, just from experience and from talking with friends, family, and coworkers over the years: I think men have a broader range of what they find attractive, but it's more defined than women's. They like more "types" but what they don't like, they REALLY don't like and there's nothing a woman can do about it. On the flipside, women might have a narrower range or fewer "types" that they like, but the edges are kind of fuzzy: A man who initially strikes a woman as "meh, he's okay" can "get cuter" depending on how he interacts with her, especially if he can make her laugh.
I just so happen to think more like a man. I have more "types," but they are well-defined. I either feel it or I don't from the get-go. I think I've only dated two people who didn't knock my socks off the first time I laid eyes on them. The rest of them had me thinking "get over here" from the start.
Here's my super over-generalized sense of it, just from experience and from talking with friends, family, and coworkers over the years: I think men have a broader range of what they find attractive, but it's more defined than women's. They like more "types" but what they don't like, they REALLY don't like and there's nothing a woman can do about it. On the flipside, women might have a narrower range or fewer "types" that they like, but the edges are kind of fuzzy: A man who initially strikes a woman as "meh, he's okay" can "get cuter" depending on how he interacts with her, especially if he can make her laugh.
I just so happen to think more like a man. I have more "types," but they are well-defined. I either feel it or I don't from the get-go. I think I've only dated two people who didn't knock my socks off the first time I laid eyes on them. The rest of them had me thinking "get over here" from the start.
Totally agree. Dating is like applying for a job. If the resume and looks are good to the onlooker then that's a foot in the door. In person is seeing how true it is.
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