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I wish but unfortunately it can't happen anymore. I think the number one reason for that is I've been a cigarette smoker most of my life and I've read too many articles that blame smoking for decreased ability to perform.
Hell, I keep up with a 22 year old with a strong drive. Viagra my man! I don't need it for the first time, but I do for my second, third, and fourth, if we happen to be really going at it.
You do realized that for most people your age, twice a week is damned lucky. Twice a month, or even twice a years is common.
By the time I was your age I had already gone 3 years without sex.
Now why would that be? Are you talking physically capable or just being with a wife or g/f that lost interest? if it's the later I couldn't or wouldn't deal with that. I'm with a woman that's 10 years younger than me so that helps, but she likes a lot of sex as well.
Now why would that be? Are you talking physically capable or just being with a wife or g/f that lost interest? if it's the later I couldn't or wouldn't deal with that. I'm with a woman that's 10 years younger than me so that helps, but she likes a lot of sex as well.
She had problems and decided that if she couldn't enjoy sex, she wasn't interested. And to hell with my needs. For a long time I was foolish enough to believe in duty, honor, till death do us part, blah, blah, blah. Truth is that she started cutting me off long before that. It took me forever to realize that she was just being selfish. She could have done something! But that meant seeing her for who she truly was. And that meant admitting that my entire marriage was a joke.
To this day I wonder if she ever really had a sex drive. Sometimes i think that too was a sham. I think she just wanted a security blanket and a paycheck. She should have married a priest.
Hell, I keep up with a 22 year old with a strong drive. Viagra my man! I don't need it for the first time, but I do for my second, third, and fourth, if we happen to be really going at it.
The first time is no problem for me either and I've thought about the Viagra but want to save that option for a last resort. I would guess it's like any other prescribed drug in that one could build a tolerence to it and it's expensive from what I hear anyhow.
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She had problems and decided that if she couldn't enjoy sex, she wasn't interested. And to hell with my needs. For a long time I was foolish enough to believe in duty, honor, till death do us part, blah, blah, blah. Truth is that she started cutting me off long before that. It took me forever to realize that she was just being selfish. She could have done something! But that meant seeing her for who she truly was. And that meant admitting that my entire marriage was a joke.
That's just all kinds of wrong and I got to give you credit for hanging in there and staying with her. I guess if my SO just up and decided one day, once a week or 3 times a month or whatever was all I was gonna get, I suppose I could deal with it, but to engage 2 or 3 times a year...No, that would have me heading out the door.
The first time is no problem for me either and I've thought about the Viagra but want to save that option for a last resort. I would guess it's like any other prescribed drug in that one could build a tolerence to it and it's expensive from what I hear anyhow.
As you can imagine, it is easy to justify the $30 a tab at $2500 for a night and a day. I need to do everything I can to get the most out of every date.
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That's just all kinds of wrong and I got to give you credit for hanging in there and staying with her. I guess if my SO just up and decided one day, once a week or 3 times a month or whatever was all I was gonna get, I suppose I could deal with it, but to engage 2 or 3 times a year...No, that would have me heading out the door.
Most people here would probably be surprised to know that I am generally considered to be a very honorable person. And I never cheated on my wife. But I was driven to my breaking point before starting down the road to never never land. It became a life or death choice... but I will say no more about that.
As you can imagine, it is easy to justify the $30 a tab at $2500 for a night and a day. I need to do everything I can to get the most out of every date.
Most people here would probably be surprised to know that I am generally considered to be a very honorable person. And I never cheated on my wife. But I was driven to my breaking point before starting down the road to never never land. It became a life or death choice... but I will say no more about that.
That's good that you set yourself free, because life is just to short to miserable.
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