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Old 02-26-2013, 01:12 PM
 
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I'd call it quits and not bother to meet up. Could become very awkward and you may hear something you don't want to. Just cut her loose.


I'd say shed lying about a lot more.
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Old 02-26-2013, 01:13 PM
 
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Also I wanted to add this. On Sunday night, not only did I see a text from the guy she saw last night to hang out and "chat," But also one from a guy friend(who I know and have met) saying this, "Hope you had a good weekend. Want to see that movie some time? "

Am I supposed to be okay with this people really??
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Old 02-26-2013, 01:18 PM
 
Location: U.S.A.
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Also I wanted to add this. On Sunday night, not only did I see a text from the guy she saw last night to hang out and "chat," But also one from a guy friend(who I know and have met) saying this, "Hope you had a good weekend. Want to see that movie some time? "

Am I supposed to be okay with this people really??? Am I being unreasonable about not wanting my girlfriend to hang out with male friends alone. Please tell me I'm not crazy for this.
Yeah, ok, seeing a movie sounds like a date...

If you're sincerely thinking about breaking up, perhaps you're both on the same page.

Good luck.
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Old 02-26-2013, 01:19 PM
 
Location: Alaska
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If you do decide to see her, I'd plan it for next week, after the wedding. That way, you'll have an idea if she just wanted you for a date for it.
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Old 02-26-2013, 01:24 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Also I wanted to add this. On Sunday night, not only did I see a text from the guy she saw last night to hang out and "chat," But also one from a guy friend(who I know and have met) saying this, "Hope you had a good weekend. Want to see that movie some time? "

Am I supposed to be okay with this people really??
I'm a firm believer in being able to maintain friends of the opposite sex. But that said, it can be a potential mine field and you need to be very considerate of your other half regarding them.

I would not hang out with any male that my husband does not know (aside from work stuff), I would not go to the movies with one of them unless I invited my spouse. I would not be texting/talking with them unless mentioning to my husband.

No, he is not my keeper and never acts that way. I do not want even the appearance of impropriety to cause him to question anything. I do it because I care about his feelings.
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Old 02-26-2013, 01:31 PM
 
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I'm a firm believer in being able to maintain friends of the opposite sex. But that said, it can be a potential mine field and you need to be very considerate of your other half regarding them.


No, he is not my keeper and never acts that way. I do not want even the appearance of impropriety to cause him to question anything. I do it because I care about his feelings.

My thoughts exactly. She put me in a situation where I felt uncomfortable, I catch her in a lie about her whereabouts... There is no way I could trust her again
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Old 02-26-2013, 01:37 PM
 
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Also I wanted to add this. On Sunday night, not only did I see a text from the guy she saw last night to hang out and "chat," But also one from a guy friend(who I know and have met) saying this, "Hope you had a good weekend. Want to see that movie some time? "

Am I supposed to be okay with this people really??
My last relationship did this with a gay guy. I never met him and I really didn't care if she went to watch the movie. I didn't really care, because she earned a level of trust with me. Even though it made me uncomfortable for a couple of minutes, it wasn't worth getting aggravated over. In the end, I play the game of if she's doing something behind my back, it will rear it's head some way, some how.

I don't play like I'm oblivious, but I can't stress over every single thing that makes me a tad uncomfortable.
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Old 02-26-2013, 01:40 PM
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You are not her #1 even though you may think you are. Move on.

And, btw, don't read her texts, none of your business
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Old 02-26-2013, 01:58 PM
 
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Imagine all the other lies that she have told you and you haven't caught her yet? Don't waste your time with her excuses. Fool me once, shame on you...fool me twice...I'm a freaking dumbass. Don't be a dumbass.
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Old 02-26-2013, 02:30 PM
 
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Also I wanted to add this. On Sunday night, not only did I see a text from the guy she saw last night to hang out and "chat," But also one from a guy friend(who I know and have met) saying this, "Hope you had a good weekend. Want to see that movie some time? "

Am I supposed to be okay with this people really??
but did she respond? men i have no interest in will text me stuff like that...it happens to just about everyone. i will ignore or politely decline. that is why you shouldn't read through people's texts. stuff can get taken the wrong way
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