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How old are you? Girls are just people, but softer. When a girl talks to you they're probably just as nervous and insecure as you are. Just be yourself.
How old are you? Girls are just people, but softer. When a girl talks to you they're probably just as nervous and insecure as you are. Just be yourself.
I doubt it...why would she be nervous when she started it?
Ok, it doesn't matter...I already know this. If I'm being honest...it's like, everytime I'm trying...I get ahead of myself. Some I think, don't think....I mean, it's too much, she, our lives, it'd be too much....like why would I deserve it? If it is really so good, then what makes me worthy of it? I wouldn't be...millions of guys roam the earth...many so much more than I ever could be. The problem is that I'm putting too much pressure on it, and it hasn't even started yet...
I'm trying to fight it, and I'm a fighter, so I'll win....which means I'll lose. Why won't I allow myself to be happy?
If I try to be, then I might not be...I recognize it takes effort, and should I not be able to provide the amount required, then I failed. If I don't try to be, then I let it be in her control, and honestly I don't have much going for me, so I suspect I'd still fail.
If only I could succeed without trying? Without failing?
It's so much easier not to care.
I pine over women, and in the end I trip myself up, inevitably.
Ah well, so many other women out there...the question is, as it always was, why her? And why not me?
Last edited by dub dub II; 02-26-2013 at 05:49 PM..
How old are you? Girls are just people, but softer. When a girl talks to you they're probably just as nervous and insecure as you are. Just be yourself.
I agree. I know one woman all the guys fawn over, always calling her beautiful, turning everything she says into sexual innuendos, asking her on dates, etc. I treat her just like a normal person and don't constantly shower her in compliments. I've never made any moves on her or asked her out.
Guess who she likes?
Get ahold of yourself and treat her just like anybody else. Not all girls want a guy to put on a big show for them. They just want YOU.
It's not that I'm shy...I knew she would talk to me eventually...she's very friendly...plus I'm her type...
So, she breaks the silence...and yeah, the banter is good. She gives me time...always a good thing.
But now I'm putty...I've done this so many times before...it has never worked. Not once.
The onus is on me now...but if I try history shows I'll fail. If I don't, and I know I won't, I'll fail still...
I'm not ready....fantasies are mine to do with as I wish.
Why do girls exist?
I debase their essence, but it is their essence I want.
I want what isn't mine...if I needed it, wouldn't nature have given it to me?
Nature sucks. I'm anti nature...pro nurture...
Well clearly half your problem is that you are a walking philosophical overthinker. Similar to my boy Trimac but on a much larger, not quite healthy scale.
Just be confident. What is the worst than can happen? She won't talk to you anymore. Ok cool. Onto the next one.
Stop thinking of every way you can mess up and just chill.
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