I hate how I turn to putty when a nice girl talks to me.... (dating, women)

[dub dub II]

It's not that I'm shy...I knew she would talk to me eventually...she's very friendly...plus I'm her type...

So, she breaks the silence...and yeah, the banter is good. She gives me time...always a good thing.

But now I'm putty...I've done this so many times before...it has never worked. Not once.

The onus is on me now...but if I try history shows I'll fail. If I don't, and I know I won't, I'll fail still...

I'm not ready....fantasies are mine to do with as I wish.

Why do girls exist?

I debase their essence, but it is their essence I want.

I want what isn't mine...if I needed it, wouldn't nature have given it to me?

Nature sucks. I'm anti nature...pro nurture...

[Trimac20]

Experience, I guess, I'm the same. I guess their feminine charms might never stop losing their magic though, but would you really want them too? haha

[Prince_Frog]

You type as if you're high all the time.

Stop being puddy when it comes to women you're attracted to.

Problem solved.

[Mharroun]

Originally Posted by dub dub II

It's not that I'm shy...I knew she would talk to me eventually...she's very friendly...plus I'm her type...

So, she breaks the silence...and yeah, the banter is good. She gives me time...always a good thing.

But now I'm putty...I've done this so many times before...it has never worked. Not once.

The onus is on me now...but if I try history shows I'll fail. If I don't, and I know I won't, I'll fail still...

I'm not ready....fantasies are mine to do with as I wish.

Why do girls exist?

Look at it this way...sounds like you have lots of opportunities... so dont fear failure try your best and if you fail theres always next time.

Personally I found im at my strongest when I accept failure as an option and just relax and be myself.

[dub dub II]

Originally Posted by Prince_Frog

You type as if you're high all the time.

Stop being puddy when it comes to women you're attracted to.

Problem solved.

Yeah, I keep away from the dro. That stuff kills you...maybe not physiologically, but spiritually, it'll kill you.

I say x.
You say not x.
Problem solved?
The problem just started...

[Prince_Frog]

Originally Posted by dub dub II

Yeah, I keep away from the dro. That stuff kills you...maybe not physiologically, but spiritually, it'll kill you.

I say x.
You say not x.
Problem solved?
The problem just started...

well now that I've seen you've added more to the opening post, and maybe it's just me, but I think you've got some issues that you need to sort out before you start dating.

And yeah, it's how I deal with my issues. Is it harsh? Yeah, maybe, but does it work? It's gotten me this far in life with no major problems.

[BirdieBelle]

Almond Joy or Mounds?

Sometimes you feel like a nut

Sometimes you don't.

[Inebriated Duck]

[Prince_Frog]

Originally Posted by Wmsn4Life

Almond Joy or Mounds?

Sometimes you feel like a nut

Sometimes you don't.

I don't like either.

I'll choose a reeces.

[dub dub II]

Originally Posted by Prince_Frog

well now that I've seen you've added more to the opening post, and maybe it's just me, but I think you've got some issues that you need to sort out before you start dating.

And yeah, it's how I deal with my issues. Is it harsh? Yeah, maybe, but does it work? It's gotten me this far in life with no major problems.

What issues do you see? Beyond the obvious?