Need advice "trainman96" (how to, girls, friend, regret)

[trainman96]

Hi I'm going to start out with a brief intro. I'm not that great with asking girls out or knowing when to. I'm in high school and there's a girl i've been talking to a bit in history class. I'm pretty comfortable conversing with her and i know i like her, but i just dont know how to let her know that i like her because i asked one of our mutual friends and she said she's not good with taking hints. i dont know if she likes me and if i do ask her out it's going to be a "yes" or she's going to be creeped out. So any advice?

[akck]

You won't know until you ask. Since you're in high school, I'd ask her out to a movie or other public event and then maybe get a snack/soda/coffee after. Just don't react badly if she says no. She'd be pretty shallow if she gets creeped out when you ask.

[BKSnook]

Try this: "Hey, do you want to grab lunch with me this weekend? There's this great place I've been wanting to try!"

[iknowftbll]

Maybe you're the one not good at taking hints. Don't worry, not too many men are! Did you consider that when her friend told you that she (the girl you like) isn't good at taking hints, that perhaps that was a hint to you to be more direct? If you don't go for broke once in a while you may look back and wonder why not. And if she doesn't like you, sure maybe history class will be a little awkward, but you'll get through it. And you'll never look back and regret the times you tried but failed. Ask the girl out!

[mattywo85]

Just ask, I know its easier said then done but once you do that the hard part is over.

[jim9251]

Originally Posted by BKSnook

Try this: "Hey, do you want to grab lunch with me this weekend? There's this great place I've been wanting to try!"

There ya go! Perfect answer. Remember you have a 50/50 chance of her saying yes. That's better odds than your local weatherman's forecast.