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The type of flirting that works for me, is being direct, charming, relaxed and outcome independent. Open and confident body language and lotsa eye contact are very important. Being direct alone, sets me apart from 90% of guys who flirt, and gives me a great advantage. Coming up to a woman and telling her that i find her attractive, is millions of times better than apporaching a woman and talking about the weather. Deep down inside, she knows why you approached anyway, so whats the point? Being indirect is not a masculine trait and women dont respond to it.
I am one of those people who are oblivious to light flirting, so I need someone to be blunt with it. I always assumed people were being friendly.
Me too, something like this might sink in:
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Originally Posted by mlj1225
What about saying something subtle like "Bend me over?"
Years ago when the internet was but an embryo, I met a young woman "on line" who I fancied. We emailed each other back and forth heavily for a long time, then finally met face-to-face. We're standing in my hotel room hugging for the first time, not saying a word. She's beautiful, dressed to a T. Oh my! She looks into my eyes and says, "You nervous?"
"I guess so, a little."
"Me too," she says. (Pause) "I've heard it's impossible to be nervous if you're looking at someone naked."
I just talk their ear off, and if they listen they're a keeper...
If a guy does that its a turn off.
I want good listeners
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