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Old 03-01-2013, 01:03 PM
 
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This thread should have stayed closed since the information already posted already addressed the issue. I'm still reading the same posts rehashed and posted differently from other posters.

Nothing more can be said.

 
Old 03-01-2013, 01:06 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Someone needs tough love...

But you are just at the beginning of your journey, so there is still hope for maturity and experience.
Even you must recognize, that there is always hope that she may change her mind.
 
Old 03-01-2013, 01:11 PM
 
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Even you must recognize, that there is always hope that she may change her mind.
Sorry but real life isn't a fairy tale.
 
Old 03-01-2013, 01:14 PM
 
Location: Canada
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Even you must recognize, that there is always hope that she may change her mind.
No.

She made up her mind about you years ago and carries it with her to this day. People don't magically change and view you differently, especially when there's nothing compelling them to change their view. You're still the same guy she dismissed several years ago.

Let your fantasies go. She is nothing to you other than something you've created in your mind.
 
Old 03-01-2013, 01:14 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Even you must recognize, that there is always hope that she may change her mind.
No. There is no such hope. This is what you need to understand and accept.

She either
a) Just plain doesn't like you, due to what she's observed/heard/experienced;
b) Already has a bf
c) Doesn't like Hispanics. You're not Richie Valens.
d) Considers that she's in a different socio-economic group than you, and therefore considers you ineligible to be her friend
e) any combination or all of the above
 
Old 03-01-2013, 01:14 PM
 
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Even you must recognize, that there is always hope that she may change her mind.
You can't hinge your entire dating world around a fantasy though.

You don't know what she's going to do after she graduates, she may move across the country for school. If she does that, are you going to follow her? Are you going to try to find out what schools she's applying for, and then apply to those schools also and literally stalk her around the US?
 
Old 03-01-2013, 01:17 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Sorry but real life isn't a fairy tale.

After 19 pages, why can't you understand how much I genuinely admire and care about her??? . These type of true feelings are rare in today’s society. That is something even she should consider.
 
Old 03-01-2013, 01:18 PM
 
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After 13 pages, why can't you understand how much I genuinely admire and care about her??? . These type of true feelings are rare in today’s society. That is something even she should consider.
But she's not. Know why? She don't like you nor does she think of you in that way.

You can have feelings for someone, but you can't force someone else to develop those same feelings if she doesn't feel it either.
 
Old 03-01-2013, 01:19 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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After 19 pages, why can't you understand how much I genuinely admire and care about her??? .
This is irrelevant. After 19 pages AND TWO THREADS, why can't you understand SHE DOESN'T LIKE YOU? Never has, never will.
It doesn't matter if you feel her reasons are arbitrary. You don't know all her reasons. What honorable guys do regarding "ladies" is respect their decisions.
 
Old 03-01-2013, 01:20 PM
 
Location: Texas
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If she does that, are you going to follow her? Are you going to try to find out what schools she's applying for, and then apply to those schools also and literally stalk her around the US?
No, I will not.I would never consider anyone else, yet I would not stoop to the level of stalking her wherever she goes.
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