Young men dating older women -whats the appeal? (calling, average, reason)
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Men in general date based almost entirely on looks. They will pursue a hot woman if she is 18, 28, or 48. They will pursue 48 if there are no 28s available, or they aren't able to land one.
And there are no hot 58 or 68 yr olds, so drop that from your conversation.
What you're saying is largely true of very young men. However, it is not true of "men in general."
It isn't that older men don't appreciate looks. It is just that we've accumulated enough life experience to know beauty isn't worth as much as younger men think. A lot of guys in their early 20s will put up with almost anything--lies, cheating, verbal disrespect, even physical abuse--from a woman if she is "hot" enough. Very few guys in their 30's are willing to do that. So, the fact a 32 year old might want to date a 42 year old shouldn't be that surprising.
Well I'm 50 been hit on a few times by my children adult male friends. I'm happily married and not looking, to me it be like bedding a son, no thanks......
Some of these young stupid guys think they have a better shot at getting sex from an older and plainer woman then from a girl their age. The mentality of these kids (who have a lot to learn) towards the older women is " She can't turn me down for sex. Where else is she going to find a young, handsome, "stud" like me? It'll impress all her friends/family/neighbors to be seen with 'hot stuff like meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee". Would she rather go out with some bald, pot bellied, drooling old slob or go out with "action me"?
Then there are those boys who want their rent paid, their car paid for, to be able to be supported while they stay home and date girls their age while old sugar grandma works.
Not saying you're wrong, but I don't think that's all of them. I've heard men say that older women are better in bed. Lost all our hangups, are comfortable with ourselves, etc.
I dated a man 11 years younger and it was none of that - we just liked each other.
I think it would have been a problem later on if we had stayed together. When my age started showing, so to speak.
Not saying you're wrong, but I don't think that's all of them. I've heard men say that older women are better in bed. Lost all our hangups, are comfortable with ourselves, etc.
I dated a man 11 years younger and it was none of that - we just liked each other.
I think it would have been a problem later on if we had stayed together. When my age started showing, so to speak.
When do you suppose that would have been, though?
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