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Old 03-08-2013, 01:03 AM
 
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Most guys don't figure out a good approach that quickly. We recognize something that catches our attention, but if we are not smooth we need to gather our thoughts. Most of the time we have either lost sight of you or realized how awkward it would be to chase you down. The player types would def drop a line if you signaled them back and then you'd be single after a one night stand a few days later (obviously depending on how attracted you were). Balance is always the best, but don't expect good honest guys to go flatter you right after they have spotted you.
Me neither. I was thinking of a way to approach him but he was checking out already when i found him again. i should've slipped my number in his grocery bag lol.
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Old 03-08-2013, 01:28 AM
 
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In the PNW, most guys are too chikensht to ask. This guys friend from out of town told me his friend was interested but too shy to approach me.turn off.
I'll take that as a challenge..
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Old 03-08-2013, 01:35 AM
 
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In the PNW, most guys are too chikensht to ask. This guys friend from out of town told me his friend was interested but too shy to approach me.turn off.
This was my observation in Seattle, too.
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Old 03-08-2013, 01:41 AM
 
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This was my observation in Seattle, too.
My theory is it's because women don't smile here. Very dead faces all the time...

Yesterday, I saw a lady in her car smiling...and I was like "that's new..."

Most are just sourpussing their way through life...how do you approach a girl who looks like she just found out she has cancer?
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Old 03-08-2013, 07:52 AM
 
Location: No longer in Queens, NY
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Depends on how hot she is.

Hot chick makes a move...awesome.

Ugly chick makes a move...desperate and gross. Some guys take it as a personal insult if an ugly woman pays ANY attention to him. I've witnessed this more times than I can count.

Interestingly, this thread JUST popped up proving my point

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...d-someone.html
Yeah, that really bothers me with our society...people forget that we're all just human. With the way some guys speak, you'd think they were Greek Gods who were entitled only to Goddesses. Really sad mentality.

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It might have something to do with the fact that your probably one out of a hundred messages these females get daily. Some emails are bound to fall through the cracks.
Very, very true. That just makes it harder.

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My theory is it's because women don't smile here. Very dead faces all the time...

Yesterday, I saw a lady in her car smiling...and I was like "that's new..."

Most are just sourpussing their way through life...how do you approach a girl who looks like she just found out she has cancer?
The worst are the ones pretending to fiddle with their cell phones so they can avoid your approach. The funniest ones are those doing it even when I had absolutely no intention on trying to talk to them anyway.
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