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I follow two rules. 1. Flirting: Keep it subtle to moderately overt. 2. General approach: keep it classy, so even if the advance is rebuffed, he would still feel flattered.
That depends. I used to be quite aggressive until I was told it came off as slutty. Now, 'm very hesitant to make any type of move on any guy. Wouldn't want to come off the wrong way and have him disappear on me because of a perceived 'reputation'.
this post got my curious as to how/why. Any woman who is quite aggressive can be seen as attractive. But i do agree with us, the men, in a sense that there is overly aggressive. But do elaborate more if you don't mind. Because i'm intrigued
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Originally Posted by weezerfan84
I welcome an advance! Shoot, I'm likely always in the mood, whether I find you terribly attractive or not. The gross but old saying is, if it's pink and it don't stink. There's times where you have an itch and you just want it to be scratched.
My first girlfriend made all the moves on me. Talked to me first, drove me to her house, sat down next to me in the bed, and that's when I made the move. She did far more than enough to let me know she was interested.
I've made moves before where I thought the woman was into me, and turns out, she wasn't as into me as I thought. Made for an awkward moment with a ghosting event soon after.
I would never think a woman was a **** just because she made a move on me. It's a BIG TURN ON when a woman takes charge. It lets me know I'm dealing with a woman and not a child. I've dealt with women that made me make every move and I got tired of messing with them. There was no fun in feeling like I was taking someone's virginity every time and they were scared.
Definitely, I like it when women are pro-active sometime, even occasionally, it's better than always being the initiator. It makes you feel desired/wanted. Some guys don't mind that, though.
If I feel that he's into me, I'll do whatever I feel like doing (which could be anything).
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