i need help please don't judge! (wife, boyfriend, girlfriend, girl)
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I've been with my baby daddy about three years. Recently he calls this one person that is a female but when he does he calls them "dude" but i call him out that its a female.voice he says its his friends wife but until today he said it was his friends girlfriend. We have two kids, then today he said he wants to do his own laundry, which he said cuz he keeps missing socks and i must be losing his socks. Then earlier today he told me how his friend sprayed him cuz he stunck but smells like girl perfume but also Cologne. I have nowhere to go my family isn't rich. What do you think is.going on? I want.to end it something tells me its not right, I'm thinking the kids deserve better than this, i do too. When i ask simple questions he gets upset turns it into an argument. I'm lost cuz calling a girl dude over phone then saying its a guy repulses me, i hate liars.
THis probably s/b posted in the Relationship section. If your boyfriend wants to leave, let him go but he should pay child support as he is their father. In the meantime, would concentrate on getting a job and going to school (maybe at nite) so you have a way to support your children and can make something of yourself in the future, you dont want to depend on anyone esp. if the relationship is going downhill, it wont be easy but in the long run will be for the best, maybe contacting a counselor to help you make some positive decisions w/b the way to go.
Ok, first off take a deep breath and slow down. Yes, what you say sounds suspicious. I'd back off, NO DRAMA! , continue watching for signs of things being not as they should be. Meanwhile, focus on getting a job or getting some means of support together so that IF you do find out the worst, you are in a proper position to take the best action for yourself and your children. Good luck. Your being calm and observing him will be your strongest asset to find out the truth here.
Have some faith in life. It is not always easy of course, but often - looking back - things work out for the best.
Now... if the father of your child IS having an affair and you both break up, then you have to believe in yourself and that you will find someone else around the corner who is better for you.
Yes, good advice - get yourself in a position to take care of you and your kid and make the most of any opportunities which come along.
Think of relationships as learning grounds. Learning about yourself and what you want from a relationship and what you dont want in the next relationship too. If you have learned all you can from each other in a relationship, then the Universe will place you in a position so that you can move to the next class and meet the next teacher who can take you to another level. You will be surprised what openings present themselves if you allow them to.
I've been with my baby daddy about three years. Recently he calls this one person that is a female but when he does he calls them "dude" but i call him out that its a female.voice he says its his friends wife but until today he said it was his friends girlfriend. We have two kids, then today he said he wants to do his own laundry, which he said cuz he keeps missing socks and i must be losing his socks. Then earlier today he told me how his friend sprayed him cuz he stunck but smells like girl perfume but also Cologne. I have nowhere to go my family isn't rich. What do you think is.going on? I want.to end it something tells me its not right, I'm thinking the kids deserve better than this, i do too. When i ask simple questions he gets upset turns it into an argument. I'm lost cuz calling a girl dude over phone then saying its a guy repulses me, i hate liars.
"your laundry is on the lawn!"
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