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Exactly! If you work full time you're "busy". But that doesn' stop me from having a social life. Usually the people who go on and on how busy they are usally some of the biggest D bags out there.
Just holding everybody at arms length. I went out on a couple of dates with a woman like this. Was busy all the time, but she was just busy drinking a lot with a drinking friends. What she'll find out is when she's over the party stage, all those so called friends will disappear. They are only there because the fun is there. Wait till life gets serious and you want to travel a different road. You'll be traveling that road alone, because those drinking friends just want to party!
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Exactly! If you work full time you're "busy". But that doesn' stop me from having a social life. Usually the people who go on and on how busy they are usally some of the biggest D bags out there.
When someone on a dating site says "I'm just so busy!", what I interpret that to mean is "I only date the 10%, otherwise, don't bother wasting my time".
Then you are reading it wrong. People want to present themselves honestly. In my case, I wanted to make sure that any lookers, knew that I was NOT looking for a relationship where we spend every night together, or even every OTHER night. I don't have that kind of time, and frankly, I doubt I ever will, at least not for many years. There are a lot of guys that feel exactly the same way, so why waste anyone's time that might be looking for more? I let them know what I want, up front. Worked great for me.
Then you are reading it wrong. People want to present themselves honestly. In my case, I wanted to make sure that any lookers, knew that I was NOT looking for a relationship where we spend every night together, or even every OTHER night. I don't have that kind of time, and frankly, I doubt I ever will, at least not for many years. There are a lot of guys that feel exactly the same way, so why waste anyone's time that might be looking for more? I let them know what I want, up front. Worked great for me.
Exactly! For example, the first single father boyfriend told me the following, "Lily, you are a great girl. But I am a dad, I have to juggle between a full time job and a five year girl. I cannot promise that I am going to give you a great time simply because i am too busy..."
My reply, "I understand that. I still like you."
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Great post
