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Old 03-10-2013, 12:22 PM
 
Location: No longer in Queens, NY
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Why were you appreciative of the response back? Women shouldn't be treated like employers
Put it this way...when you're virtually ignored all the time by women online and in real life, any kind of acknowledgement is nice. I wouldn't like a nasty message back, though. Fortunately, I've never had that before.
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Old 03-10-2013, 12:25 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Put it this way...when you're virtually ignored all the time by women online and in real life, any kind of acknowledgement is nice. I wouldn't like a nasty message back, though. Fortunately, I've never had that before.

If i was ignored by woman all the time I certainly would be glad to receive a nice rejection email.
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Old 03-10-2013, 12:47 PM
 
Location: No longer in Queens, NY
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If i was ignored by woman all the time I certainly would be glad to receive a nice rejection email.
Well, we just think differently is all.
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Old 03-10-2013, 12:50 PM
 
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Why are you wishing someone the best of luck? Are you an employer?
I don't get the employer reference, I've never had an employer call me to reject me and wish me luck after I sent a resume.

What is wrong with wishing them luck? To me it's just an acknowledgement that we're all here trying to meet someone, and just because it's not me doesn't mean I hope the guy doesn't meet someone else who is a better match.
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Old 03-10-2013, 01:12 PM
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I don't get the employer reference, I've never had an employer call me to reject me and wish me luck after I sent a resume.

What is wrong with wishing them luck? To me it's just an acknowledgement that we're all here trying to meet someone, and just because it's not me doesn't mean I hope the guy doesn't meet someone else who is a better match.

You never saw a rejection from a employer wish a applicant good luck in their employment search?

I don't feel like I need LUCK to find someone so if a woman says that to me i will become disrespectful
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Old 03-10-2013, 01:25 PM
 
Location: Rosslyn, VA
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Lol i never send rejection msgs either but sometimes has to be done if someone you respond to keeps msging you, why didn't you respond to my message? did you get it? Why aren't you responding let me know? I can offer you everything these other guys can't. Then you get the continuous requests to chat with them.. gets very annoying.

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Why are you wishing someone the best of luck? Are you an employer?
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Old 03-10-2013, 01:27 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Lol i never send rejection msgs either but sometimes has to be done if someone you respond to keeps msging you, why didn't you respond to my message? did you get it? Why aren't you responding let me know? I can offer you everything these other guys can't. Then you get the continuous requests to chat with them.. gets very annoying.

if someone keeps doing that then means you delete the message and block them
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Old 03-10-2013, 01:31 PM
 
Location: Rosslyn, VA
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right... but with chat you can't.. this is on pof. Anyways it can happen so continuously with about every guy who msgs.

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if someone keeps doing that then means you delete the message and block them
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Old 03-10-2013, 01:33 PM
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right... but with chat you can't.. this is on pof. Anyways it can happen so continuously with about every guy who msgs.

I don't understand what you mean? If you block someone they can't send you no kind of request, chat, message, nothing
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Old 03-10-2013, 01:35 PM
 
Location: No longer in Queens, NY
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Lol i never send rejection msgs either but sometimes has to be done if someone you respond to keeps msging you, why didn't you respond to my message? did you get it? Why aren't you responding let me know? I can offer you everything these other guys can't. Then you get the continuous requests to chat with them.. gets very annoying.
I've heard that some guys do this . Don't they realize that's a big turn-off? I'd never do that as I wouldn't want the girl to think she's special anyway. IMO, NO woman is worth begging for.
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