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Old 03-12-2013, 12:09 PM
 
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Male here. If a woman is just willing to give me her true heartfelt and pure love and affection, and loves being openly affectionate (i.e., lots of "ILY's", soft-spoken words, warm tender embraces, cuddling, etc.), I'll be 100% happy -- everything else is really just optional
Maybe that's why my husband is happy with me. You just describe what I do to him everyday. Especially the ones in parenthesis. He actually said that's all he wants from me - my love and affection.

Like yesterday, I called him to come in our bedroom and when he did, he ask why.. I said I just want you to kiss me. LOL. He gave me a few smacks and was like is that why you called me here? I was like - ya.

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Old 03-12-2013, 12:26 PM
 
Location: Florida
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Male here. For me to consider a LTR, she must:

- Have the right body type (big in the right places).
- Be good in the sack (loud, uninhibited, adventurous, doesn't demand too much foreplay (especially kissing -- boring), high sex drive).
- Not be materialistic. Nothing wrong with a chick wanting a provider, but my paycheck shouldn't be what she is wanting to blow on the weekends!
- Have a great sense of humor. Prudes/easily offended need not apply.
- Have more girl friends than guy friends. Not because of jealousy issues or lack of trust, but because every girl I've ever met who has "all guy friends" has been NUTS.
- No extreme Type A personality. If you like to have every detail of your life, even your free time, planned out days or weeks in advance... not gonna work.
- Not be a stage 5 clinger. Even if I get married, I'm still going to want "me" time and the option of enjoying my own hobbies that may not involve her.
- This is a big one. NO SELF-ESTEEM ISSUES. Chicks with low self-esteem are bad news, in many ways.
- Not have kids, and preferably not have been married before, although the latter isn't an absolute deal-breaker. But I'm definitely not raising another dude's spunk.
- Have good hygiene, especially dental. Nothing more annoying than being on my way to approach a cute chick, then being stopped dead in my tracks when she smiles and reveals a jacked up grill.

I'm sure I can think of more, but you get the idea. If you ask me, I'm not really asking a lot and most of the above is just common sense. Even so, it sure ain't easy to find a chick who gets check marks all the way down the list.
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Old 03-12-2013, 12:32 PM
 
Location: Chicagoland
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Passionate.

Passionate about life, ideas, knowledge, experiences, love.

Passionate about me.
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Old 03-12-2013, 12:34 PM
 
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Funny.

I'll handle the rest, just make me laugh.
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Old 03-12-2013, 01:14 PM
 
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I'm not picking on you Knight, but really, don't you need more than that? Don't you want someone with intelligence, integrity, a kind nature, and someone who is sincere? You deserve that. Someone can be lovey-dovey and yet a really nasty person! lol
Lol, no problem and no offense taken at all, my friend NoDoubt And thanks for your comments and feedback...maybe I should have prefaced my earlier post with saying that she would also need to have a very compassionate, kind, and caring nature, as well? (Haha, I guess I maybe sorta assumed that my earlier post may have already implied that, to a certain extent )

Here's an older post I came up with a while back on who I could see as my hypothetical ideal or perfect partner, which has a more detailed or verbose listing of qualities, I think which may outline some of what you had suggested above (link)

ETA: I am very richly blessed, am among the most fortunate of men, and I thank God for His mercy each and every day, to actually have that one perfect, most special girl, in my life and in my heart, atm in the present...

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Old 03-12-2013, 01:29 PM
 
Location: At the corner of happy and free
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I want a man who is intelligent, ambitious, interesting, passionate, enjoys conversation, stays current with what is going on the world, loves exploring the world and staying active, yet can also be silly and goofy and make me laugh. He must be kindhearted, respectful, honest, and just an overall good man.

And I thank my lucky stars every day that I found my perfect-for-me man!!
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Old 03-12-2013, 02:08 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Not a d-bag.
Likes me and enjoys spending time with me as a romantic partner and not just a buddy.

It's amazing how difficult finding those two things are, but those are my two basic requirements.
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Old 03-12-2013, 02:43 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Lol, Jet!!!!

I can see your ad : Nonsmoking, non-dbag.
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Old 03-12-2013, 07:12 PM
 
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1. Loving, caring and humble personality
2. A great friend and confide,soulmate
3. Great mother for our children
4. Accepts me for who I am

I'm male btw.
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Old 03-12-2013, 07:26 PM
 
Location: Pa
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1. Loving, caring and humble personality
2. A great friend and confide,soulmate
3. Great mother for our children
4. Accepts me for who I am

I'm male btw.
Sounds good.
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