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Well in that case he knows he has a problem. Does he want to stop? If not, there really isn't much you can do. Perhaps al-anon or some other similar support group, and decide whether you can live with it. Leaving him may be your only option.
If you do go to al anon, and you really should for yourself, they will tell you that you should make no big decisions , like leaving, for at least 6 months from your first meeting. Also, you should go for at least 6 meetings and just listen if you have nothing to add to the group conversation. Focus on you with al anon, try it and do your best not to worry what he's doing. Can't change it anyways, only he can.
My husband has taken to drinking in the car while waiting for me ti come out of work. He gets totally smashed then wants me to drive home. Anyone see an issue with this?
Yes.
He is basically making sure you don't leave work with someone else after work.
If someone pulled that on me, I would tell her to never do that again. It's a total dealbreaker, and unacceptable.
My husband drinks too but I don't think he ever got a DUI. He can take his alcohol alright. He has no prob driving after he drinks. I would have driven but I got 'drunk' with 2 daiquiris and a shot of rum chata(?). He and his friends actually laugh at me. Well they know I don't drink.
My husband has taken to drinking in the car while waiting for me ti come out of work. He gets totally smashed then wants me to drive home. Anyone see an issue with this?
Does he pick you up everyday?
Once a week?
Once a month?
Need more info
But, yeah, it sounds like a problem from my POV
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