I'm about to have a nervous breakdown over a guy.. (sex, friend)
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Relax. No person is worth getting so worked up over. You will see him again and there will be opportunity to put something together if the two of you want to. Some people will like us and some will not, it is somewhat out of our hands. But we do have some control over how things go because most people will be on the fence at first. So just be cool and allow him to come to you if he will. You could be friendly, smile and ask how he's doing when you see him but allow him to come to you and he probably will. Sounds like a nice guy to give you a ride home and also sounds like he doesn't dislike you or he wouldn't have wanted to help you out. So looks good to me. Take a deep breath.
Relax. No person is worth getting so worked up over. You will see him again and there will be opportunity to put something together if the two of you want to. Some people will like us and some will not, it is somewhat out of our hands. But we do have some control over how things go because most people will be on the fence at first. So just be cool and allow him to come to you if he will. You could be friendly, smile and ask how he's doing when you see him but allow him to come to you and he probably will. Sounds like a nice guy to give you a ride home and also sounds like he doesn't dislike you or he wouldn't have wanted to help you out. So looks good to me. Take a deep breath.
Ugh, don't give her false hope.
He could be dating, married, gay, doesn't want to date a coworker, or doesn't want to date her at all. The fact that he gave her a ride home means he was kind, but that's all we can assume.
She can certainly put herself out there and show interest, but she needs to let go of expectations she puts on other men, and also needs to value herself as a person rather than putting her worth in the hands of others. From her posts, I don't think she's in any condition to date.
^^^^ sometimes people need to date to learn about themselves. I'm agreeing with her earlier thought also that she can't just go and give the man her number. now that I've read through. I did that once too and the guy looked at me like I was from another planet and never called. Just because something is done once and doesn't work with one guy, true, doesn't mean it won't work with others, but as a rule, being this forward does not work. That is why I say allow. I certainly don't mean to give her false hope. I think the situation looks hopeful, but it is true, he could already be with someone of course. She has to relax and allow him to be the "forward" one. But if she does not relax, it won't go well. OP, there's always another one right around the corner. Im sure Im older than you and even at my age, always another so no need to worry.
^^^^ sometimes people need to date to learn about themselves. I'm agreeing with her earlier thought also that she can't just go and give the man her number. now that I've read through. I did that once too and the guy looked at me like I was from another planet and never called. Just because something is done once and doesn't work with one guy, true, doesn't mean it won't work with others, but as a rule, being this forward does not work. That is why I say allow. I certainly don't mean to give her false hope. I think the situation looks hopeful, but it is true, he could already be with someone of course. She has to relax and allow him to be the "forward" one. But if she does not relax, it won't go well. OP, there's always another one right around the corner. Im sure Im older than you and even at my age, always another so no need to worry.
If he is with someone, why would he offer to give me a ride home if he didn't have to? I never paid him any mind until he got my attention. Everytime he sees me, he is always trying to be helpful with my work tasks. If he has a girlfriend, is he trying to keep me as a possible rebound??
Relax. No person is worth getting so worked up over. You will see him again and there will be opportunity to put something together if the two of you want to. Some people will like us and some will not, it is somewhat out of our hands. But we do have some control over how things go because most people will be on the fence at first. So just be cool and allow him to come to you if he will. You could be friendly, smile and ask how he's doing when you see him but allow him to come to you and he probably will. Sounds like a nice guy to give you a ride home and also sounds like he doesn't dislike you or he wouldn't have wanted to help you out. So looks good to me. Take a deep breath.
yeah that was very nice of him do you think he finds me attractive or thinks of me in a sexual way?
yeah that was very nice of him do you think he finds me attractive or thinks of me in a sexual way?
How many times is the OP going to ask a forum what one guy thinks of her ?
Just ask the guy out already. Woman do it ALL THE TIME. It is not considered a bad thing for a woman to ask out a man. If you like him this much, isn't it worth it to just do it?
At least give him your phone number and smile and say "Call me."
THEN, you will know.
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do you think he finds me attractive or thinks of me in a sexual way?