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Her husband had a long term affair, texts all her sisters the very same evening she found out about the affair revealing everything she knew in detail up to that moment? Then she ends up staying with her husband, acting like the affair never even happened, and telling her sisters to act like they never knew about it?
Now all the sister can't stand the husband after what he did, and when they see him at family functions, they have to pretend to be nice to him.
Last edited by Just One of the Guys; 03-14-2014 at 01:08 PM..
Her husband had a long term affair, texts all her sisters the very same evening she found out about the affair revealing everything she knew in detail up to that moment? Then ends up staying with her husband, acting like the affair never even happened, and telling her sisters to act like they never knew about it?
Now all the sister can't stand the husband after what he did, and when they see him at family functions, they have to pretend to be nice to him.
Because in the heat of the moment you're angry and may do things you'll regret. I guess she regrets telling her sisters, but when she found out her initial reaction was probably to leave him and tell the people closest to her. After she thought about it I guess she decided to stay with him.
Her husband had a long term affair, texts all her sisters the very same evening she found out about the affair revealing everything she knew in detail up to that moment? Then she ends up staying with her husband, acting like the affair never even happened, and telling her sisters to act like they never knew about it?
Now all the sister can't stand the husband after what he did, and when they see him at family functions, they have to pretend to be nice to him.
When people behave in contradictory ways, it is usually because they are deeply conflicted. The sisters need to keep doing exactly what they have been doing, difficult as it is. It is between her and her husband.
When people behave in contradictory ways, it is usually because they are deeply conflicted. The sisters need to keep doing exactly what they have been doing, difficult as it is. It is between her and her husband.
The sisters haven't said a word to him, he has no clue anyone knows about it.
If my husband had an affair the first person I would turn to would be my sister, I don't find that unusual. I wouldn't want to go through something like that without some support.
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Her husband had a long term affair, texts all her sisters the very same evening she found out about the affair revealing everything she knew in detail up to that moment? Then she ends up staying with her husband, acting like the affair never even happened, and telling her sisters to act like they never knew about it?
Now all the sister can't stand the husband after what he did, and when they see him at family functions, they have to pretend to be nice to him.
Because she reacted out of anger but now she is thinking logically, from all angles. Does she have children? How long have they been together? Is she financially stable? There are many factors to divorce including emotional.. she may simply not want to lose a love she has invested so much into.
She has decided to work through this infidelity in the relationship but she has put her family in an awkward position. The sisters can only be there and support her. Hopefully the old saying "Once a cheater always a cheater" doesn't apply here.
Because she reacted out of anger but now she is thinking logically, from all angles. Does she have children? How long have they been together? Is she financially stable? There are many factors to divorce including emotional.. she may simply not want to lose a love she has invested so much into.
She has decided to work through this infidelity in the relationship but she has put her family in an awkward position. The sisters can only be there and support her. Hopefully the old saying "Once a cheater always a cheater" doesn't apply here.
They do have children, and have been married for over 20 years. They act lovey dovey now which boggles the mind of everyone who knows about it. But the sisters still hate him for what he did.
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