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Originally Posted by Nala8
I just got back into this thread, and I'm sorry I did. Makes me feel so sad that so many people feel this way. I am grateful for the few who seem to know that love goes far deeper than how a person looks.
My question is how would a person even know that their spouse would flip on them and get turned off if they were disfigured by a disease or accident?
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Well, there's always asking them. But, if I looked like the "elephant man" I'm pretty sure my (hypothetical) husband would not be attracted to me anymore. Could he still love me?
Absolutely, but I think it would change to a platonic love and not the type of love a lover feels for his/her SO. Personally, I couldn't remain with someone who didn't see me as their lover anymore.