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First, a chubby girl is not a second class citizen or any less a person because of their weight. That mentality is pathetic. You might not be attracted to them, that is fine. Don't think any less of them because of their size.
Fairly simple. In HS, that's basically all that matters (popularity, how well you're liked by others and how good looking you are). The girls you're attracting are probably the ones on your level, but you want to go for the ones that aren't.
You're in High School... not even old enough to legally rent a car. The world continues after HS and you'll find a lot of the things you feel now won't matter in 5 or 10 years and you'll think it's silly.
As for being a travel agent, I would pick something different. I'm in aviation and I'll tell you right now it's a dead field.
I'm currently in 12th grade (I'll be graduating this year) and well none of the girls I'm interest in like me in return; only those two I don't like physically.
Why? I know I'm good looking, participate in school activities, I'm friendly with everyone and I'm not chubby (I'm 6'1 and 180 Ibs). So why do only chubby girls have a crush on me and only those 2 particular I'm going to mention. Just because I was friendly with those girls, they already have the wrong idea that I want to date them sometime.Or I'm I just limited to chubby and/or unattractive girls?
I'm usually friendly to everyone at school but these particular chubby girls (one is heavier but ok looking and the other is just not attractive) seem to want to hang out with me more.
I always give them excuses such ''Sorry but I got family reunion'' or ''Gotta really study for my finals but maybe next time''. I accidentally overheard Lynn (the heavier but not so bad looking girl) talking to her friend about how she has a crush on me since 7th grade and how she wants to know me better but I'm always busy.
The other girl, Katia (who is fairly ugly, has braces and glasses) also likes me. I can tell because she sometimes seems to stay after school in history class; supposely to help out the teacher grading exams and homeworks but why always when I'm there or how she smiles at me. I only talked to her as a person but then once she said ''Brian, if you're not doing anything I was wondering if we could hang out''. I made an excuse but she ''Ok, let me know''.
You need to understand that most chubby women do not date chubby men and for the most part the are physically attracted to you.
Of course they can, some of the best women I had was chubby chicks!
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