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how can you tell if a girl really likes you, really loves you and has feelings for you. i met this girl and we went out 10xs and she tells me this. im not the most experience guy when it comes to dating too and im in my early 30s
how can you tell other than just believing her. i say this since i also notice her stories dont match up, lot of silences and pauses when i ask her a quesitons, and stories dont add up or later ask again and its a different answer,says she goes counsellor at 6 and then doesnt bother to meet me after on a friday since we always meet up on fridays. how long can a counselling session be 1 hr tops.
i also notice she makes jokes or just kidding with stuff that arent even funny. like complaining that i didnt have a car indirectly on the first few dates and when i do get one she says i dont feel comfortable sitting in ur car. ah i question her on that and she said she was just joking. how is that a joke. its annoying
pros-she texts me a lot and say she misses me and thinks about me . she says she loves me , says im the best bf, pretty inlove wiht me ......
any way you can tell a girl really likes or loves you other than just believing what you hear
im thinking of not paying for meals-50/50 and just meeting up at a coffeeshop instead of drving her and picking her up. if she still sees me then i know its real
she holds my hand and arm very tight as we are a couple and lets me kiss her
. also one date she says she likes me and enjoys time and has feeling with me, other time she loves me and another time im ok and bearable. so its like wishy washy answers.
A few questions. How long have you been dating her? Are you any more intimate with her than just kissing? Do you spend a lot of money on her? Just because she says she likes you or loves you doesn't necessarily mean she does. Therapy should last 1 hr. at the most. Does she seem really happy to see you? Does she grab your hand or arm herself or kiss you on her own?
If she has already told you verbally or through texting that she loves you, isn't that the answer to the question right there? Lol, just curious, why doubt the sincerity of her words...she could really and truly actually mean it, after all; if she didn't mean it, why would she say it to you?
how can you tell if a girl really likes you, really loves you and has feelings for you. i met this girl and we went out 10xs and she tells me this. im not the most experience guy when it comes to dating too and im in my early 30s
You mean, you've been on 10 dates? How long have you been seeing each other?
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how can you tell other than just believing her. i say this since i also notice her stories dont match up, lot of silences and pauses when i ask her a quesitons, and stories dont add up or later ask again and its a different answer,says she goes counsellor at 6 and then doesnt bother to meet me after on a friday since we always meet up on fridays. how long can a counselling session be 1 hr tops.
If you feel that she is not being honest and open with you, you need to talk to her about it. The next time her story doesn't add up, question her about it. If you are not satisfied with her answers then perhaps you are right not to trust her. Ultimately, if you feel something is not right, you shouldn't ignore it.
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i also notice she makes jokes or just kidding with stuff that arent even funny. like complaining that i didnt have a car indirectly on the first few dates and when i do get one she says i dont feel comfortable sitting in ur car. ah i question her on that and she said she was just joking. how is that a joke. its annoying
If there is one thing I've learned in life it's that people have all different types of humor. There are plenty of people out there who joke about stuff that I just don't "get". It doesn't mean they aren't joking, it just means you don't share the same sense of humor and that is a problem in a relationship in my opinion. It's important to laugh together and if you don't get each others sense of humor, it probably won't last.
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pros-she texts me a lot and say she misses me and thinks about me . she says she loves me , says im the best bf, pretty inlove wiht me ......
This is why I wanted to know how many dates you've been on/how long you have been seeing each other. It sounds like it's way too early for her to be in love with you. Always be wary of people who form quick attachments - they are likely to drop their attachments just as quickly.
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im thinking of not paying for meals-50/50 and just meeting up at a coffeeshop instead of drving her and picking her up. if she still sees me then i know its real
So you think she might just be using you for free meals? If that's the case, it won't last long anyway. She'll get bored or find someone else.
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also one date she says she likes me and enjoys time and has feeling with me, other time she loves me and another time im ok and bearable. so its like wishy washy answers.
She said you were "bearable"? Are you sure she wasn't joking again?
how can you tell if a girl really likes you, really loves you and has feelings for you. i met this girl and we went out 10xs and she tells me this. im not the most experience guy when it comes to dating too and im in my early 30s
how can you tell other than just believing her. i say this since i also notice her stories dont match up, lot of silences and pauses when i ask her a quesitons, and stories dont add up or later ask again and its a different answer,says she goes counsellor at 6 and then doesnt bother to meet me after on a friday since we always meet up on fridays. how long can a counselling session be 1 hr tops.
i also notice she makes jokes or just kidding with stuff that arent even funny. like complaining that i didnt have a car indirectly on the first few dates and when i do get one she says i dont feel comfortable sitting in ur car. ah i question her on that and she said she was just joking. how is that a joke. its annoying
pros-she texts me a lot and say she misses me and thinks about me . she says she loves me , says im the best bf, pretty inlove wiht me ......
any way you can tell a girl really likes or loves you other than just believing what you hear
im thinking of not paying for meals-50/50 and just meeting up at a coffeeshop instead of drving her and picking her up. if she still sees me then i know its real
she holds my hand and arm very tight as we are a couple and lets me kiss her
. also one date she says she likes me and enjoys time and has feeling with me, other time she loves me and another time im ok and bearable. so its like wishy washy answers.
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Lol, just curious, why doubt the sincerity of her words...she could really and truly actually mean it, after all; if she didn't mean it, why would she say it to you? 
