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Went on our third date. We just hung out and watched movies. Made out a few times. He asked me if I wanted to stay the night, I declined and went home around 4am.
The next day he texted me nonstop.
The day after...nothing. I never initiate, but this usually isn't a problem.
The next day...still nothing.
Today...nothing again! Should I contact him or not? I'm so confused!
After our first date I heard him as soon as I got home. The second date...I didn't hear from him for a week. After the third day I heard from him the next day...but then he stopped all of a sudden! I'm assuming he is dating multiple girls, he's bored, or he's just not into me. But I'd like a guys opinion. What do you think? And should I contact him?
Went on our third date. We just hung out and watched movies. Made out a few times. He asked me if I wanted to stay the night, I declined and went home around 4am.
The next day he texted me nonstop.
The day after...nothing. I never initiate, but this usually isn't a problem.
The next day...still nothing.
Today...nothing again! Should I contact him or not? I'm so confused!
After our first date I heard him as soon as I got home. The second date...I didn't hear from him for a week. After the third day I heard from him the next day...but then he stopped all of a sudden! I'm assuming he is dating multiple girls, he's bored, or he's just not into me. But I'd like a guys opinion. What do you think? And should I contact him?
He's listening to too many of his friends and thinks that's what a guy should do. They think you need to avoid to "get".
Go ahead, contact him. Ask how he is doing. Tell him you hope all is well. If he doesn't respond, move on without so much as a glance over your shoulder!
If you like him, reach with a phone call. Texting is not the same as 2 voices communicating but the convenience has turned into a preferred method of communication and its not the same. I agree with other posters during first meeting someone people are told often not to look too gung ho about being interested like its a bad thing, and its not.
If he does not respond after a call or two then its a different story.
Ok thanks guys I think I will call him tomorrow. Or should I just send him a "how's it going?" text?
Send him a test first. Then wait until later to call. It won't put him on the spot as much.
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I think I will call him tomorrow. Or should I just send him a "how's it going?" text?
