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ive been seeing a guy for 7 months, we live together even work together but still arent in a relationship. everyone knows were together he even speaks of me to other people as his girlfriend but dosnt call us boyfriend and girlfriend. "im his girl but were not official" is really whats said more often unless a guy is hitting on me then im his girlfriend. he talks about the future about when we get married or says how are kids would be good looking but still no title whats up with that?
means your his girlfriend when it's convenient for him. means you have options too that maybe you should evaluate further.
I like that advice, it most def. Makes sense to b me and I will put your advice to practice :-).
But my question to you would be. ...
What if the guy starts the engine but doesn't take the car for a spin on or in 7 dates (a month and a half) and we aren't exclusive, how will he know if the sex would be good?
I want to know and I'm very curious to know why we haven't gotten physical and em beginning to wonder if it's me or he has a problem.
I like that advice, it most def. Makes sense to b me and I will put your advice to practice :-).
But my question to you would be. ...
What if the guy starts the engine but doesn't take the car for a spin on or in 7 dates (a month and a half) and we aren't exclusive, how will he know if the sex would be good?
I want to know and I'm very curious to know why we haven't gotten physical and em beginning to wonder if it's me or he has a problem.
Well if he is smart, he will wait for you to basically drop the bomb that you want a relationship. I never have asked a girl to be exclusive until she basically told me so. Drop the hints. If he wants a relationship with you he will ask. Although to be honest, a lot of guys (if they are good with women) won't go into exlcusive territory until they know the sex is good.....
Teva arreola: I like that advice, it most def. Makes sense to b me and I will put your advice to practice :-).
But my question to you would be. ...
What if the guy starts the engine but doesn't take the car for a spin on or in 7 dates (a month and a half) and we aren't exclusive, how will he know if the sex would be good?*
I want to know and I'm very curious to know why we haven't gotten physical and em beginning to wonder if it's me or he has a problem.
I've known someone who thought after a few nights of sex, he made it official. She flipped her lid and left him as she was embarrassed to be thought of as his girlfriend.
Figured they had to chat about it before telling the rest of the world I reckon.
As adults... do some people actually have to have a conversation about whether or not they are boyfriend-girlfriend?
After a month, and several dates and sexy times, and they are not seeing anyone else, arent you a couple?
I mean, this isnt high school, do people still ask the person to be their boy/girlfriend?
I 've been dating this guy for a months now , its like 7 dates, i really like him , he treats me right, always make time to see me, go out, we texting the most than talking, hes the one who's always call me. The thing is i wanna be his girlfriend , i want to ask him but i don't want him to think im to fast and mess up everything and it seems like he's taking his. And yes we slept together. What should i do?
Have you discussed the kind of relationship that you both want? Men usually like to be the one to discuss being exclusive first.
Give him another month of dating. If he hasn't brought up being exclusive, you may want to decide to discuss with him or move on.
My wife and I never committed to each other before I proposed. But, quite honestly, we didn't have to put a label on our relationship. At least from my part, I knew where we were and was fully committed to me. We didn't spend enough time apart for there really to be any doubt.
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when is to long lol
