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I'm not planning on changing how I look or anything like that to get to be noticed just to put that out there haha, however I am super shy and I am going to be a freshman in college soon! I've never had a "real" relationship including in highschool because I believe that it is a waste of time, (also my school is small). Now I am going to a bigger school, (around 3,000 a community college for my associates) and I have to completely start from scratch!
However I am very introverted but I am trying to be better! How can I strike a conversation with a guy or get him to "notice" me?
(Yes I understand you don't go to college for guys but I wouldn't mind getting my feet wet in the dating world
I'm not planning on changing how I look or anything like that to get to be noticed just to put that out there haha, however I am super shy and I am going to be a freshman in college soon! I've never had a "real" relationship including in highschool because I believe that it is a waste of time, (also my school is small). Now I am going to a bigger school, (around 3,000 a community college for my associates) and I have to completely start from scratch!
However I am very introverted but I am trying to be better! How can I strike a conversation with a guy or get him to "notice" me?
(Yes I understand you don't go to college for guys but I wouldn't mind getting my feet wet in the dating world
Thanks!
Smile, laugh, always be busy with stuff to do (be a girl on the go), hang out and go out with cute friends, stay thin, have trendy hair styles, get rid of your high school clothes and do a make over (read those trendy in-style magazine), and, in general, be a cute hot n sexy creature like no other but don't over do it. Build it and they will come.
Of course, never said they don't. Unfortunately, when women act on that they get called all kinds of names and then are excluded from LTR by the very men who will later complain about not getting enough sex.
1.Good hygiene, eg. no halitosis, have fresh breathe and don't smoke, lol shower daily, no toe jams or dirty fingernails and wear a decent scent from Victoria's Secret that won't break your bank
2.Have a modern haircut
3.Dress appropriately for school, eg. don't try too hard
4.Be confident
Try starting a study group. If you know the subject matter a bit better than others, don't be afraid to help out and be conscientious
Yep. Guys are pretty simple. Be hot, put out. It's sad, but true.
I politely and respectfully disagree with my dear friend above's response
If I had to give any advice for a girl who was interested in attracting guys at that age, having been there myself in the past lol, I would say to consider "killing them with kindness" In other words, try to be as kind and caring as possible to them, while still also being 100% true and genuine to you Guys may not admit it up-front for fear of being perceived of as less-than-manly, but a real, true, actual nice and caring, affectionate girl is gold, and even better than the gal who "puts out", 1000x moreso too
When I myself was in college, again the quickest and easiest way for a girl to turn my heart into butter, make my heart melt, and make me feel "the butterflies" inside (and also make me feel even more romantically attached to her), was for her simply to be genuinely nice and caring, and truly affectionate and kindhearted to me.
Maybe at least consider trying it, anyway...try being "the sweetheart loving angel" to a guy, and the "girl he wants to take home to meet his mother" -- because with the right kind of guy, he will never want to ever let you go, from his heart and from his arms. B/c you will be that kind of one special girl that he will want will want to love, honor, and adore, for all eternity, and forevermore
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In other words, try to be as kind and caring as possible to them, while still also being 100% true and genuine to you 
