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Whatever's going wrong could have to do with his misinterpreting the "we get along great" part of it, just before or after getting the number. Maybe he's not reading the signals right.....?
Well, maybe not. Some women will hand out a number just to avoid being rude, or they'll give out a fake number. Whatever's going wrong could have to do with his misinterpreting the "we get along great" part of it, just before or after getting the number. Maybe he's not reading the signals right.....? And maybe the women feel put on the spot by being asked for their number.
It's tough being a guy in the dating world sometimes - they have to take so much risk
These women who say you're great and "perfect", OP, have they tried to set you up with any friends?
If you're good-looking, and have a great vibe, like you indicate in your first post, the women should be gravitating towards you. Get involved in your community. Give them a chance to get to know you, and warm to you.
And what do they say, how do they react? (Words, facial expression, body language)
One girl I asked her to hang out and she said that she would like that and that i'm very nice. 2 days later, I tried to arrange something and she made a BS excuse and did not try to reschedule. I contacted her a week later and she didn't respond and hasn't contacted me since
Another girl said that she would like that when I suggested a hangout after getting her number...she didn't respond at all when I tried to contact her
Etc...
It just boggles my mind how difficult it seems to be to get a date
It just boggles my mind how difficult it seems to be to get a date
These things happen. Don't be banging your head against the wall, that'll just make it worse. The best way is to place yourself where you can let them get to know you and discover that you're a cool guy. Nature will take its course.
These women who say you're great and "perfect", OP, have they tried to set you up with any friends?
If you're good-looking, and have a great vibe, like you indicate in your first post, the women should be gravitating towards you. Get involved in your community. Give them a chance to get to know you, and warm to you.
Which all goes back to my first post -
He is clearly doing something wrong, subconsciously I'm sure, that is keeping women from thinking he's date/mate material because women who know him as friends rave about him, but he can't get a woman's attention otherwise.
Until he can attract women to him, they'll never have a chance to get to know him. So he's got to figure out what messages he is sending out when he is in public among folks, or just talking to women on the phone whose numbers he's managed to get.
Then I will reiterate, you are doing SOMETHING that you don't realize you are doing that puts women off or gives them the impression you are not interested - getting a date is just not that hard.
Talk to your women friends like I suggested and get their input
Exactly. But taken further if he is what he says he is it isn't all that long before he meets a woman who will lead him through the entire process making sure he doesn't screw it up along the way. It doesn't add up.
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