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Old 03-25-2013, 01:41 PM
 
Location: USA
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A dude with a crappy car may be compensating for it with a huge willy.
Haha Pimpy. But I don't think there is a correlation on that one Too much emphasis on big Willies out there and many men fall into it. Never met a woman worth having that had big Willie as her top criteria in man selection even though Ive met a few who just had to try one as a bucket list item.

On the car side, Ive never bought a cool car with getting a woman in mind. It's always been something I wanted, so it stood on its own
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Old 03-25-2013, 02:33 PM
 
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Delving into the esoteric aspects of financial stability or whether or not you can or can't afford something is irrelevant for the sake of this discussion. That's nobody's business but your own anyway unless you're talking about your wife or serious life partner. But to the rest of the world you pretty much are what you appear to be. Feel free to argue the merits or injustice of that, but it is what it is.
Like you said, it is what it is.....
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Old 03-25-2013, 03:53 PM
 
Location: The Valley of the Sun
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Ive never bought a cool car with getting a woman in mind. It's always been something I wanted, so it stood on its own
And that's the way it should be. Buy a Porsche because you love the power, handling and styling, not to impress a woman, your next door neighbor or anyone else.
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Old 03-25-2013, 04:04 PM
 
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[quote=Scottay;28831789]And that's the way it should be. Buy a Porsche because you love the power, handling and styling, not to impress a woman, your next door neighbor or anyone else.

"Porsche because you love the power, handling and styling,"
Hell its a roller coaster ride with no line to wait in. When I'm driving on a curvy road I'm not going to be thinking about a woman unless shes with me or it's her turn to drive
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Old 03-25-2013, 04:38 PM
 
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Yeah, and I get more 'attention' from men when I wear a ridiculously low cut shirt.

Doesn't mean it's good attention.
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Old 03-25-2013, 10:37 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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That's the BIGGEST turn-off to me when it comes to cars and men. If a guy is trying too hard to attract attention it just means there's a greater likelihood he's insecure.

My ex had a nice car that was loads of fun to drive, but when he put in a 'sound system' I stopped driving with him unless he promised to keep it down. Nothing more irritating than driving down the road and some a-hole has his bass turned up and his windows down to the point of my car windows rattling and not being able to hear my own music. Especially considering they usually listen to horrible music.


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The whole point is getting women to notice you in which a few 12 inch subs in the trunk can easily do. If you have sound, you could pull into a college campus and within a few minutes have a small crowd around you.


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Old 03-25-2013, 11:18 PM
 
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I used to have some pretty sweet sound systems in my cars, but that was when i was 19. That was way before I understood that you cannot reproduce a real high quality sound in a space of a car because the physics will not allow it. Here is the deal. If a guy needs a prop like a flashy ride, in order to attract women, chances are he is immature, insecure and has no game whatoever. If you need this type of help in attracting women, it simply means you see yourself as having a lower social value in comparison to the women you are trying to attract. All you are really trying to do is to feel as an equal, which is just as pathetic as guys who brag about their careers or how much money they have in their bank account, the minute they approach a woman.

It is all done for the same purpose and it all speaks volumes about your insecurities. Sure, you may attract a few gold diggers, and if thats all youre after - more power to ya, go get em. Even if you believe that driving a flashy car is a symbol of status, trust me when i tell you, that a quality woman much prefers a guy who isnt too concerned about chasing status or what others may think of him at the moment. Quality women in general, prefer men who are secure and content with where they are in life, and have no need for props to even the playing field. They prefer man who already see themselves as equals.
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Old 03-25-2013, 11:31 PM
 
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I used to have some pretty sweet sound systems in my cars, but that was when i was 19. That was way before I understood that you cannot reproduce a real high quality sound in a space of a car because the physics will not allow it. Here is the deal. If a guy needs a prop like a flashy ride, in order to attract women, chances are he is immature, insecure and has no game whatoever. If you need this type of help in attracting women, it simply means you see yourself as having a lower social value in comparison to the women you are trying to attract. All you are really trying to do is to feel as an equal, which is just as pathetic as guys who brag about their careers or how much money they have in their bank account, the minute they approach a woman.

It is all done for the same purpose and it all speaks volumes about your insecurities. Sure, you may attract a few gold diggers, and if thats all youre after - more power to ya, go get em. Even if you believe that driving a flashy car is a symbol of status, trust me when i tell you, that a quality woman much prefers a guy who isnt too concerned about chasing status or what others may think of him at the moment. Quality women in general, prefer men who are secure and content with where they are in life, and have no need for props to even the playing field. They prefer man who already see themselves as equals.


Ascension nails it again
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