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Old 03-23-2013, 12:59 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Just do whatever you want to do. We can't make every dating decision for you.

I;m not asking anyone to make a decision for me, I said what do you think about the time being pushed back
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Old 03-23-2013, 01:00 PM
 
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by the way, this demonstrates very needby behavior, you are more likely to tube this potential than you think. get your act together.
yup..my sentiments exactly
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Old 03-23-2013, 01:01 PM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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So what if I say ok and then in 2 hours she says........."can it be 9pm?
Just reply back...No, but I appreciate your asking!
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Old 03-23-2013, 01:01 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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You can cover yourself by saying something like "if you are tied up with other things, we can reschedule for some other day."

Giving her an out if she really isnt looking forward to meeting. The last thing you want is to go out with someone that isnt fully invested. No need to over analyze things...


Well I responded letting her know 8pm is fine. But if I get another text asking can it be 9pm My respond will then be

"well that's a little late for me to leaving my place so you can meet me at my APT and i pay for your parking"
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Old 03-23-2013, 01:03 PM
 
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Well I responded letting her know 8pm is fine. But if I get another text asking can it be 9pm My respond will then be

"well that's a little late for me to leaving my place so you can meet me at my APT and i pay for your parking"
Goodluck with that lol
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Old 03-23-2013, 01:04 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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I had plans to meet someone tonight at 7pm and she sends a text asking can we meet at 8pm because she is behind scheduled.

Plus this is right after her revealing last night that she was living with her ex last month and just moved into her own place.


I don't have a good feeling about this
It's one hour, don't be paranoid!
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Old 03-23-2013, 01:09 PM
 
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So what if I say ok and then in 2 hours she says........."can it be 9pm?
At that point you can either agree or say no, let's try for another time. I really liked someone and he did this to me, but he did it right before the date and did not set a specific time to reschedule. Just assumed I'd wait for his call later that evening. I cancelled on him at that point. As adults some of us need to learn to say no. But more important, some of us need to learn to lighten up.

I'd agree to 9 if she pushes it back, especially with advance notice.

I wouldn't let her push it back a third time, though.
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Old 03-23-2013, 01:13 PM
 
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So what if I say ok and then in 2 hours she says........."can it be 9pm?
You obviously have no experience with women. Most are behind schedule or running late.
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Old 03-23-2013, 01:14 PM
 
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Well I responded letting her know 8pm is fine. But if I get another text asking can it be 9pm My respond will then be

"well that's a little late for me to leaving my place so you can meet me at my APT and i pay for your parking"
LOL!! Hilarious!
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Old 03-23-2013, 01:20 PM
 
Location: East coast-New England
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You obviously have no experience with women. Most are behind schedule or running late.

Hahah. Some truth to that, and Im a woman. OP, I dont think the pushing it back to 8pm is a big deal. Sh*t happens..people get tied up. I agree you should relax with that. Now, IF she wants to push it back to 9pm, then I agree with your decision of telling her if she is tied up y'all can reschedule. However, let HER come to YOU after that. Dont you suggest ANYTHING. If she really wants to go out with you, then she will make an effort to reschedule with you.
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