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Old 03-24-2013, 05:48 AM
 
Location: Hartford CT
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What I want to know OP, is how you are even getting dates. I mean seriously, cause I am out here struggling. Maybe I need to start being paranoid about stuff
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Old 03-24-2013, 05:54 AM
 
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I had plans to meet someone tonight at 7pm and she sends a text asking can we meet at 8pm because she is behind scheduled.

Plus this is right after her revealing last night that she was living with her ex last month and just moved into her own place.

I don't have a good feeling about this
Me, neither. If you are so rigid that you are judging her for running late in today's world with so many late-running events, you probably won't be ready to engage fully in creating a friendship worth her investment.

Probably you should just keep waiting for someone that meets your narrow definition of worthy for you.
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Old 03-24-2013, 05:58 AM
 
Location: IN A COOKIE JAR
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Maybe she had gas and she wanted you to smell it.
Your crazy wit always amazes me lady!

I'm glad he had a good time though. I still wish he would have given us a live video feed of his date though. Guess I was in the mood for some reality tv last night.
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Old 03-24-2013, 11:15 AM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Honestly?
Your concern is over your potential date pushing
He date back one hour?
What about the fact that she was living with her ex one month ago?
This would have been the red flag for me…
IMO? There would not have been a date…if you were me..

It was a red flag which is why I don't consider her dating material. Up until 2 days ago she just made me think she was relocated from west oak lane to northern liberties and then all of a sudden reveals she was living with her ex which was the reason for the move
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Old 03-24-2013, 12:14 PM
 
Location: Pa
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What I want to know OP, is how you are even getting dates. I mean seriously, cause I am out here struggling. Maybe I need to start being paranoid about stuff
How was your date?
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Old 03-24-2013, 12:15 PM
 
Location: Pa
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It was a red flag which is why I don't consider her dating material. Up until 2 days ago she just made me think she was relocated from west oak lane to northern liberties and then all of a sudden reveals she was living with her ex which was the reason for the move
Living with your ex is a red flag. She should of moved out then dated. And honestly not tell you until many dates.
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Old 03-24-2013, 01:05 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Living with your ex is a red flag. She should of moved out then dated. And honestly not tell you until many dates.

In all honesty though, is there really a such thing is meeting someone who is completely single whether you meet them in public or online?


Seems like a referral from friends is the only good option for dating these days
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Old 03-24-2013, 01:08 PM
 
Location: North Beach, MD on the Chesapeake
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In all honesty though, is there really a such thing is meeting someone who is completely single whether you meet them in public or online?


Seems like a referral from friends is the only good option for dating these days
Don't you get mad when friends do that, though? Or you used to get mad.
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Old 03-24-2013, 01:10 PM
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Don't you get mad when friends do that, though? Or you used to get mad.

I don't discuss my dating life with friends or family so I would never get that type of referral
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Old 03-24-2013, 01:30 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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I don't think it was a big deal she wanted to push back the time. Unless you bought tickets for something or have reservations no biggie.

The ex thing is a different issue. I haven't read the whole thread so I don't know specifics, but sometimes people stop dating way before they are able to move out.
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