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That is foolish....so they mean to say that even though their engaged they still play the "Well were not Married yet"card?
Bullcrap.
Yes they do. I still think it is morally wrong and to be honest hope my future husband doesn't have a bachelor party (and if I marry this guy he wouldn't even want one).
Yes they do. I still think it is morally wrong and to be honest hope my future husband doesn't have a bachelor party (and if I marry this guy he wouldn't even want one).
You know what? What's the point of having a Bachelor Party for when you the perskn you are enagged with have one when you're. Not there anyway?
Why not the both of you go to a strip club together for that matter.
I myself wouldn't want my Girlfriend to have a strip party where only her and her girl friends are there and when someththing happens between my girlfriend and the stripper, her friwnds keeps it a secret without me kkonowing.
You know what? What's the point of having a Bachelor Party for when you the perskn you are enagged with have one when you're. Not there anyway?
Why not the both of you go to a strip club together for that matter.
I myself wouldn't want my Girlfriend to have a strip party where only her and her girl friends are there and when someththing happens between my girlfriend and the stripper, her friwnds keeps it a secret without me kkonowing.
I honestly don't know the appeal but I understand the idea of bachelor/bachelorette parties, such as going out to drink or sitting around and watching movies. It's a way to celebrate the upcoming nuptials. If I get married I might have a night where some of my friends and relatives get together and maybe go dancing but maybe just sit inside and eat food and watch bridal movies. I would hope my groom did something like this or better yet we all went out to party. Then again I may not even do this or he won't do something either.
But people need to have Common Sense that Right is Right and Wrong is Wrong.
Those same people wouldn't like it of someone that they are with was messing around with someone else. Especially when both of them had agreed to each other not to commit adultry behind each others bavk.
No excuses whatsoever. Which most nowadays just come up with to do wrong in a Relationship..
I don't know about "morally wrong", but it's a simple matter of being thoughtful of your partner's feelings. Also, once you cheat, it tends to involve lying to the person you're supposedly committed to, which only makes a bad situation worse.
OP, you still haven't told us where you got this idea that everyone but you thinks it's ok to cheat before marriage. You didn't get that idea here, or at least, not from most of the threads on that topic here.
I don't know about "morally wrong", but it's a simple matter of being thoughtful of your partner's feelings. Also, once you cheat, it tends to involve lying to the person you're supposedly committed to, which only makes a bad situation worse.
OP, you still haven't told us where you got this idea that everyone but you thinks it's ok to cheat before marriage. You didn't get that idea here, or at least, not from most of the threads on that topic here.
First off, some the other day who I had talked to said that 2 people who are a Couple can ztill go with other people and sleep with other people since the 2 are not Married.
Which, I disagree.
Also, I not only got that from the personvthat I had talked with but from the media such as Music, movies amd others.
I don't know about "morally wrong", but it's a simple matter of being thoughtful of your partner's feelings. Also, once you cheat, it tends to involve lying to the person you're supposedly committed to, which only makes a bad situation worse.
OP, you still haven't told us where you got this idea that everyone but you thinks it's ok to cheat before marriage. You didn't get that idea here, or at least, not from most of the threads on that topic here.
So it's okay to sleep around and be with different people because "the two of you are not Married"?
Not for me. I couldn't do that.
IMO, if two people are in a committed relationship, doing anything that you don't want the other person to see is cheating. I am completely against hurting the other person for selfish reasons. If one person wants to mess around with someone outside the relationship, then they should end the relationship first.
Could it be that someone wants to be with different people because they aren't trying or communicating in the relationship?
I am completely against hurting the other person for selfish reasons. If one person wants to mess around with someone outside the relationship, then they should end the relationship first.
And telling someone "I'm breaking up with you because I want to sleep with someone else" wouldn't be "hurting the other person for selfish reasons"??? At least with infidelity, there's a good chance it can be done without them getting hurt (if they don't find out). With what you're proposing, there's no chance of that.
Cheating is cheating. People's word that you are exclusive with each other is enough to say someone is cheating if they began to have sex w other people. You should have actions to back up a promise of exclusivity, though, not just a word. Marriage has nothing to do with the discussion , only that it is the highest form of commitment. Doesn't mean other forms do not count.
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