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Old 03-27-2013, 10:34 PM
 
Location: The western periphery of Terra Australis
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Several teenage girls (in the 15-18 age range) have commented on how attractive I am, one just said if she was older she'd really like me. Obviously an actual relationship with someone that age would be inappropriate as I'm 27, and I'm not attracted to them that way (they're online friends anyway, yes just friends)...maybe teenage girls just are more like to say things like that, but I'm wondering if guys here have found that in some ways it's easier to get a girlfriend in high school than when you're in your 20s? It just seemed in high school girls were more likely to ask boys out, and gender roles were actually less fixed. It seems as I get older, more women are also in relationships, have careers.etc and they expect more of you. I feel I kind of 'missed the boat' a bit in high school and in my uni/college years, so to speak, in terms of getting experience. I know relationships in your 20s are a different ball-game to high school romances and many people don't take the latter seriously, but it really did seem more idealistic in some ways.
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Old 03-27-2013, 10:38 PM
 
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People are bolder online. (because they don't actually have to do or risk anything)

If you're interested in real life relationships, don't take it seriously.
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Old 03-27-2013, 10:53 PM
 
Location: Florida
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Several teenage girls (in the 15-18 age range) have commented on how attractive I am, one just said if she was older she'd really like me. Obviously an actual relationship with someone that age would be inappropriate as I'm 27, and I'm not attracted to them that way (they're online friends anyway, yes just friends)...maybe teenage girls just are more like to say things like that, but I'm wondering if guys here have found that in some ways it's easier to get a girlfriend in high school than when you're in your 20s? It just seemed in high school girls were more likely to ask boys out, and gender roles were actually less fixed. It seems as I get older, more women are also in relationships, have careers.etc and they expect more of you. I feel I kind of 'missed the boat' a bit in high school and in my uni/college years, so to speak, in terms of getting experience. I know relationships in your 20s are a different ball-game to high school romances and many people don't take the latter seriously, but it really did seem more idealistic in some ways.
What are you doing having female "online friends" as young as 15 when you're 27?

Not only is it playing with fire, but it's kind of pathetic.

If I had a 15-year-old daughter who was making online "friendships" with 27-year-old men, that probably wouldn't fly with me.

If I had a 27-year-old male friend or family member who was talking to 15-year-old chicks online, I'd tell him he desperately needs to go get laid in real life -- with a chick over the legal age of consent in her home state.

And that's pretty much what I'm telling you right now.
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Old 03-27-2013, 11:13 PM
 
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You dont have to be friends with people online to get msgs. it happens all the time, pretty common actually.

Yes they are a bit more loosely spoken..but in reality women in their 20s are retarded themselves. They have no clue about life.

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What are you doing having female "online friends" as young as 15 when you're 27?

Not only is it playing with fire, but it's kind of pathetic.

If I had a 15-year-old daughter who was making online "friendships" with 27-year-old men, that probably wouldn't fly with me.

If I had a 27-year-old male friend or family member who was talking to 15-year-old chicks online, I'd tell him he desperately needs to go get laid in real life -- with a chick over the legal age of consent in her home state.

And that's pretty much what I'm telling you right now.
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Old 03-27-2013, 11:15 PM
 
Location: Earth
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What are you doing having female "online friends" as young as 15 when you're 27?

Not only is it playing with fire, but it's kind of pathetic.

If I had a 15-year-old daughter who was making online "friendships" with 27-year-old men, that probably wouldn't fly with me.

If I had a 27-year-old male friend or family member who was talking to 15-year-old chicks online, I'd tell him he desperately needs to go get laid in real life -- with a chick over the legal age of consent in her home state.

And that's pretty much what I'm telling you right now.
^^^
Exactly.
It could also be illegal.
It certainly is creepy.

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You dont have to be friends with people online to get msgs. it happens all the time, pretty common actually.

Yes they are a bit more loosely spoken..but in reality women in their 20s are retarded themselves. They have no clue about life.
Yeah, a teen knows more about life than someone who is living it outside of their parent's homes.
Some of you guys sound so absolutely pathetic and your revel in it while judging others.
Bwahahahahaha.
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Old 03-27-2013, 11:19 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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It could also be illegal.

How?
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Old 03-27-2013, 11:52 PM
 
Location: Gotham
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Several teenage girls (in the 15-18 age range) have commented on how attractive I am, one just said if she was older she'd really like me. Obviously an actual relationship with someone that age would be inappropriate as I'm 27, and I'm not attracted to them that way (they're online friends anyway, yes just friends)...maybe teenage girls just are more like to say things like that, but I'm wondering if guys here have found that in some ways it's easier to get a girlfriend in high school than when you're in your 20s? It just seemed in high school girls were more likely to ask boys out, and gender roles were actually less fixed. It seems as I get older, more women are also in relationships, have careers.etc and they expect more of you. I feel I kind of 'missed the boat' a bit in high school and in my uni/college years, so to speak, in terms of getting experience. I know relationships in your 20s are a different ball-game to high school romances and many people don't take the latter seriously, but it really did seem more idealistic in some ways.
Seriously dude, take a break from the computer for awhile.
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Old 03-27-2013, 11:59 PM
 
Location: Earth
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How?
Soliciting, stalking...
If they're underaged, and he plans to meet them, it's over the line.
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Old 03-28-2013, 12:54 AM
 
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^^^
Exactly.
It could also be illegal.
It certainly is creepy.


Yeah, a teen knows more about life than someone who is living it outside of their parent's homes.
Some of you guys sound so absolutely pathetic and your revel in it while judging others.
Bwahahahahaha.
yes i would equiv elate them. sorry if you have an issue with opinions.
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Old 03-28-2013, 01:02 AM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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..Dafuq.
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