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My SO and I had a very interesting talk about "Deal Breakers" My deal breaker is No Communication and with that is Trust. My SO feels Abuse and Trust would be his. I'd like to see what your POV is so what would be a Total Deal Breaker for you?
Loveless relationship is a total deal breaker for me. I don't care how honest or trustworthy the man is, if he doesn't love me, I am not going to stick around. Luckily, I have never been in that kind of relationship.
I have many girlfriends who stuck in loveless sexless relationship. I asked them, "What is the attraction about this kind of relationship?" Their answer, "well, he doesn't abuse me, he doesn't cheat. He is a good father of my children. He has a good job. we have a nice house. Love is not everything." total bs to me.
Loveless relationship is a total deal breaker for me. I don't care how honest or trustworthy the man is, if he doesn't love me, I am not going to stick around. Luckily, I have never been in that kind of relationship.
I have many girlfriends who stuck in loveless sexless relationship. I asked them, "What is the attraction about this kind of relationship?" Their answer, "well, he doesn't abuse me, he doesn't cheat. He is a good father of my children. He has a good job. we have a nice house. Love is not everything." total bs to me.
Loveless = deal breaker to me.
Very good POV I definitely couldn't be in a loveless and sexless relationship as I read everyone's posts I find myself adding to my minimum requirements of a relationship and I enjoy seeing what others find important in life.
Not finishing college (My only exception to this rule is nurses with associate's degrees)
No ambition
Covered in tattoos (one or two modest tattoos is fine, but sleeves, neck tatts, etc. need not apply)
Smoker
Doesn't want kids
Psychological Disorder (bipolar, BPD, NPD, etc.)
Narrow-minded
Non-scholarly
Unwilling to listen
Can't carry a conversation (OK texts are my biggest pet peeve)
Homebody
Has multiple male friends she hangs out with on a regular basis
Not finishing college (My only exception to this rule is nurses with associate's degrees)
No ambition
Covered in tattoos (one or two modest tattoos is fine, but sleeves, neck tatts, etc. need not apply)
Smoker
Doesn't want kids
Psychological Disorder (bipolar, BPD, NPD, etc.)
Narrow-minded
Non-scholarly
Unwilling to listen
Can't carry a conversation (OK texts are my biggest pet peeve)
Homebody
Has multiple male friends she hangs out with on a regular basis
Wow. I had no idea I had so many.
LoL right it's funny because as I read other post my list gets long ... good luck
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