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Old 04-01-2013, 12:10 PM
 
Location: NC
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Originally Posted by SwEETGirl09 View Post
I've been trying to move on but haven't found the right person yet.
I mean this constructively, but what i have quoted is likely your problem. You need to move on first, THEN you will find the right person. (don't try to find a replacement and then move on, that's backwards if you ask me.)

Having experienced it myself, I can all but promise that if you work on moving on by finding YOU that it will be OK. Date if you want to, or just focus on "friendships" and "self" for a while. Figure out who you are without him as part of the equation. Once you know this, then you'll attract the right people into your life, and among those right people, you will find "the right person".

Hang in there, it gets better! (and quit going to his FB page. Best bet is to quietly unfriend him, and actually start moving on...)

Good luck.

 
Old 04-02-2013, 11:19 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Myghost View Post
I mean this constructively, but what i have quoted is likely your problem. You need to move on first, THEN you will find the right person. (don't try to find a replacement and then move on, that's backwards if you ask me.)

Having experienced it myself, I can all but promise that if you work on moving on by finding YOU that it will be OK. Date if you want to, or just focus on "friendships" and "self" for a while. Figure out who you are without him as part of the equation. Once you know this, then you'll attract the right people into your life, and among those right people, you will find "the right person".

Hang in there, it gets better! (and quit going to his FB page. Best bet is to quietly unfriend him, and actually start moving on...)

Good luck.
I have moved on alright.
 
Old 04-03-2013, 07:57 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Myghost View Post
I mean this constructively, but what i have quoted is likely your problem. You need to move on first, THEN you will find the right person. (don't try to find a replacement and then move on, that's backwards if you ask me.)

Having experienced it myself, I can all but promise that if you work on moving on by finding YOU that it will be OK. Date if you want to, or just focus on "friendships" and "self" for a while. Figure out who you are without him as part of the equation. Once you know this, then you'll attract the right people into your life, and among those right people, you will find "the right person".

Hang in there, it gets better! (and quit going to his FB page. Best bet is to quietly unfriend him, and actually start moving on...)

Good luck.
^^^ This is a good point.^^^

And it seems that you won't find someone until you stop looking.
 
Old 04-03-2013, 09:12 PM
 
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I have moved on alright.
??? This isn't your thread and the person you answered wasn't quoting you...is this someone with two accounts?
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