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What's the deal? It's 2 people going on the date. If one person is paying, they'd be better off going by themselves. I've always gone dutch, and that's not changing. No point of paying for both if the relationship goes no further.
I hope you enjoy being single because if a guy asks me out then expects me to pay for my ticket that is the end of me dating him. I only pay if I ask him, if we are strictly friends, or if it's an event I really want to attend.
I don't mean to be controversial. But I was speaking with a female co-worker who was complaining about her friends who she said were average in looks yet had free stuff lavished onto them on a daily basis regardless of accomplishment or intelligence. Free tickets to events, free dinners, some guys even offered to pay the rent. Would the average guy be able to get such treatment?
Would an average man want a woman to give him free stuff and pay his bills and rent?
I don't mean to be controversial. But I was speaking with a female co-worker who was complaining about her friends who she said were average in looks yet had free stuff lavished onto them on a daily basis regardless of accomplishment or intelligence. Free tickets to events, free dinners, some guys even offered to pay the rent. Would the average guy be able to get such treatment?
Free tickets = a date or a guy ploying for sex
Free dinner = a date, really not a big deal here
rent = an older man or married man ploying for sex
It really isn't as glamorous as you are making it out to be.
Your friend just sounds bitter, none of this stuff is out of the ordinary and most decent women will think twice before they let a strange man pay their bills.
Would an average man want a woman to give him free stuff and pay his bills and rent?
coming from the stereotypical "average guy", sure, if I was dating a women who eventually insisted on saying "TAKE MY MONEY!" I would take her money and use it on bills and nothing else. It would certainly make me upset if she did this and it effected her living condition or her ability to pay bills and eat, and I would not accept her money. And, gift or not, I'd probably work to pay her the money she gave me back, to get her back to her standard of living
I don't mean to be controversial. But I was speaking with a female co-worker who was complaining about her friends who she said were average in looks yet had free stuff lavished onto them on a daily basis regardless of accomplishment or intelligence. Free tickets to events, free dinners, some guys even offered to pay the rent. Would the average guy be able to get such treatment?
A co-worker as in a fellow physician? Who's friends are likely other physicians? Unless you just chose the name doctor for fun.
Btw if anyone is willing to pay my rent I am willing to take them up on the offer.
I did know a woman who got her rent paid by a man but she was his mistress, and he was rich and married.
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