Not Sure What To Think

[caesarsgirl79]

Originally Posted by LIS123

He may have texted you for assistance, but so what? The economy is very weak right now and it's foolish not to make use of any and all available resources. You can walk back your referral by saying what others suggested; that you thought it over and don't feel comfortable referring someone whose work you're not familiar with.

Please stop paying attention to when other people on dating sites are and are not logged in.

I understand why he asked for assistance, especially since I offered. I don't blame him for that. He's not out of work, just looking for a change.

And you are right, I need to stop paying attention to when people are logged in.

[cluelessat32]

Glad it worked out ... if it makes you feel any better, when my ex was looking for a new positition he hit up anyone and everyone for referrals or ins... In this job market (of the last 4 years or so), you have to know someone ... That being said, you shouldnt do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Hopefully, you can have a good laugh over this and move on.

[caesarsgirl79]

Originally Posted by cluelessat32

Glad it worked out ... if it makes you feel any better, when my ex was looking for a new positition he hit up anyone and everyone for referrals or ins... In this job market (of the last 4 years or so), you have to know someone ... That being said, you shouldnt do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Hopefully, you can have a good laugh over this and move on.

I don't think we'll be having a good laugh. Normally I would've already heard from him by now. I guess it is what it is. I will reach out to him later and if he's not receptive then oh well.

Since he was the one who said if its not going to work out he is man enough to let the woman know. Lets see if he sticks to that.