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Old 04-02-2013, 01:48 PM
 
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I don't think that was a joke. Just do nothing and see if he responds nicely to what you already sent. Happy birthday

 
Old 04-02-2013, 01:54 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Maybe he had to transfer or update his 401K or something and you will still on the document as recipient?
If you didnt take it as a joke, then it most likely wasnt. you should know his sense of humor considering you married him.

But, maybe it WAS a joke? really hard call. considering you messaged him, you will likely find out soon. I believe you can message someone on FB without being friends, so I would think it being your birthday and the actual friend request is a good thing?

Really weird. Did it end ok? Or did the marriage end really had? If the longest relationship you had since is 4 months, I can only assume you still have some pain from the divorce.
His family is wealthy. I took it to mean that someone died and got a lot of money.

My FB is set so that you can't message me if we aren't friends (I think).

The marriage had a very bad ending, and I fully accept 50% of the blame. Maybe up to 60%.

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smart ass humor.

if they were having a rocky relationship, he's saying she should have at least knocked him off for the money (more money) as opposed to divorce.
Yes that's probably right.
 
Old 04-02-2013, 01:54 PM
 
Location: NY metro area
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Your idea of smart ass humor was waaay different than my smartass humor, and I'm called a smartass all the time.
Ok.
 
Old 04-02-2013, 01:55 PM
 
Location: NYC
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I don't think that was a joke. Just do nothing and see if he responds nicely to what you already sent. Happy birthday
My birthday was mediocre... today truly sucks... this is shaping up to be a crap year for me. But I appreciate the sentiment, thanks.
 
Old 04-02-2013, 01:57 PM
 
Location: IN A COOKIE JAR
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Happy Birthday anyway even if it's going sour already, I hope the rest of the year is a lot better than it's been for you.
 
Old 04-02-2013, 01:59 PM
 
Location: in here, out there
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Un-friend him tomorrow.
 
Old 04-02-2013, 02:09 PM
 
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This is why I wouldn't "friend" an ex. Civility is one thing. Couple years ago, the ex was needing some information I had filed, I sent it. Part of it was her living will, which was the perfect setup for a joke about making it premtive. Prudence being the better part of valor, I refrained.

There is a reason why one should remember the past, without having to relive it, or revisit it.
 
Old 04-02-2013, 02:10 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Un-friend him tomorrow.
That won't make it suck any less.
 
Old 04-02-2013, 02:15 PM
 
Location: NoVa
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An ex is an ex for a reason. Period.
 
Old 04-02-2013, 02:19 PM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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Didn't sound like a joke to me. What a jerk. I will say obviously he has some sort of feelings towards you since he bothered to look you up and say something to you. If I won all the money on the planet I wouldn't tell my ex. Hope things get better for you. That was so immature of him to look you up just to try to insult you and upset you. Seems like that message validates why it's good ya'll aren't together any longer.
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