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No, they're not sleazy dirtbags. What a terrible thing to say! I think it makes them seem human to me. You being so uptight and defensive makes you come across as very uptight and sexless. I'm probably right in my assumption about ppl like you
Apparently you don't really grasp the concept of it being none of your business.
Hmm, well, I think your friends are sleazy dirtbags for violating their partners' privacy, and that you have an unhealthy, prurient interest in things that are none of your business.
Oops, did that sound judgmental?
Calling shenanigans on this thread now.
I agree with most of this post.
IME: When people are single and 'dating', there tends to be more details flying around. It's almost like there is an obvious lack of respect. ESPECIALLY if you get down and dirty quickly.
But when a man REALLY likes a woman, he typically will NEVER talk about the sex he has with her.
I think women are different about it. But most every guy I know that chooses a woman to he his gf, 95% of the time the man won't discuss details of sex. AT ALL.
This is the same user that posted about getting easily depressed when walking into a room of confident, beautiful women in the beauty forum and had a problem "struggling to remain level headed and optimistic."
Maybe your inappropriate assumptions and judgments about people based on their PERSONAL lives is turning everyone off. There's nothing classy or confident about a woman going around prying strangers about what they do in the bedroom. And then calling them asexual when they're just being respectful of their partner's privacy.
People are all over the map in terms of what, when, and with whom they share initimate details, and you really can't assume that it means anything in particular about them (unless they actually tell you enough that there is no doubt left!).
I've met people who are intensely private, some of whom later turned out to be highly sexual - and some who were not. Sometimes I have no clue - and don't care. I've had couples tell me all sorts of things, and they may or may not tell others (I don't know). I've even had a couple offer to show me their kinky threesome sex video - heck, if they'd been a lot more attractive, I might have watched!
Not that it matters, or that I have any experience with it, but if I were in a relationship and having sex with a woman, I would be very upset to learn that she was talking about our sex life with ANYONE that is not me. Even her very best friend, I have always thought that the idea of women discussing stuff like this behind their partner's back is very tacky and rude.
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