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Old 04-08-2013, 06:44 PM
 
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Tell my cuz im dating her ex fling? We are pretty close and I did tell her before I started dating him that he and I were communicating via social media and she told me it was cool. So I went for it and now we have been dating fir a few months now and things are starting to get really serious. It's killing me because I feel like im hiding our relationship. So what do I do?
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Old 04-08-2013, 06:47 PM
 
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Tell my cuz im dating her ex fling? We are pretty close and I did tell her before I started dating him that he and I were communicating via social media and she told me it was cool. So I went for it and now we have been dating fir a few months now and things are starting to get really serious. It's killing me because I feel like im hiding our relationship. So what do I do?
Awkward.

Spend the holidays with his side.
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Old 04-08-2013, 08:19 PM
 
Location: Pa
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See how it goes. It may or may not work out. Later tell her.
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Old 04-08-2013, 08:21 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Ask her for a threesome if she a distant cousin
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Old 04-08-2013, 08:31 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Bad news does not get better with time.
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Old 04-08-2013, 09:05 PM
 
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Tell my cuz im dating her ex fling? We are pretty close and I did tell her before I started dating him that he and I were communicating via social media and she told me it was cool. So I went for it and now we have been dating fir a few months now and things are starting to get really serious. It's killing me because I feel like im hiding our relationship. So what do I do?

She said it was cool that you communicated with him. But maybe she won't be cool with you dating him? Here's what I would say:

"So, you know [guy]? You know he and I were talking on Facebook, right? Well, I have something to tell you and I'm not sure how you're going to take it, but..."

At which point she might blurt out, "OMG, you're dating him!?!"

"Yeah."

In other words, be respectful of her feelings and let her know you weren't out to hurt her or compete with her. You and the guy just liked each other and went from there, with nothing to do with her.
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Old 04-09-2013, 06:38 AM
 
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Ask her for a threesome if she a distant cousin
That is so wrong! Funny...but wrong. Lol!
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Old 04-09-2013, 07:39 AM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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If it didn't bother her back then why should it bother her now? I'm not sure why you're making such a big production out of it now when you could easily have mentioned way before now that you'd decided to date him. It wouldn't surprise me at all if the drama is all in your own mind but that's something you'll just have to find out.
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Old 04-09-2013, 08:02 AM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Tell her thanks for being okay with things earlier, as it is working out nicely with him now. Since she was okay with things earlier, hopefully she'll be happy for you now especially as you are thanking her for being so thoughtful previously.
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