Please explain male attraction to "girl-on-girl" (lesbians, marriage, women)
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I'm not trying to instigate a big debate here. I just really want to know some (many?) men find the thought of two women having s*x is so exciting -- or at least watching porn with two women together.
To my mind, that's sort of like me watching two men together. It wouldn't gross me out or anything, and I might even be a little curious about what exactly goes on between a couple of guys, but the thought of it (or the thought of watching it) doesn't turn me on.
Men, tell me why two women together is just so compelling. Women, tell me your thoughts about this, too.
Homophobic men like to watch two women. Go figure. Sort of an oxymoron way of thinking, isn't it?
Personally, I don't want to see two of the same gender (either gender) doing anything together. I'm not against gays and lesbians. To each their own. I'm simply not interested.
I'm not trying to instigate a big debate here. I just really want to know some (many?) men find the thought of two women having s*x is so exciting -- or at least watching porn with two women together.
To my mind, that's sort of like me watching two men together. It wouldn't gross me out or anything, and I might even be a little curious about what exactly goes on between a couple of guys, but the thought of it (or the thought of watching it) doesn't turn me on.
Men, tell me why two women together is just so compelling. Women, tell me your thoughts about this, too.
I want to be able to wrap my mind around it.
Men find woman A attractive.
Men find woman B attractive.
Men find T and A's, kissing, etc, attractive.
Put 1,2 & 3 together and what else do you expect ? Double your pleasure, double your fun ?
I think women are just wired differently than men. I know far more women who would rather or do watch lesbian porn than gay porn...and they're straight.
Out of all the f'd up stuff in the world men like sexually, lesbian sex is far, far, far down on the list of things I question how men can get off to it.
The ironic thing is all these men who get grossed out at the thought of two gay guys holding hands, yet go crazy when two girls start making out at a party. Hilarious when they want to beat people over the head with Leviticus 18:22 or like all these FB "anti-gay marriage posts", but that goes right out the window when they click the "Lesbian" tab on PornHub or can score a threesome with two women.
Homophobic men like to watch two women. Go figure. Sort of an oxymoron way of thinking, isn't it?
I had a discussion about this with the better half, who happens to get turned on by two women together. He really couldn't tell me why. I asked him if he found two men together sexy, and he said no, quite vehemently. I went on to explain to him that it was basically the same thing. For me, two women together is just about as hot as two men together, insofar that I find neither particular riveting.
1) More boobies. Double the pleasure.
2) They like to imagine themselves involved.
3) The women in question like sex so much, they're willing to do it with other women. So they must be really horny all the time.
I'm a woman. These are just tidbits I've picked up over the years.
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For awhile I used to mainly watch lesbian porn. I don't know why, maybe it was a fetish, but I guess sometimes straight porn seems all about mechanical thrusting, whereas lesbian involved a bit more touching and foreplay. I like that in a relationship too, so it's not surprising. But I've less into it than I used to be, maybe I just got sick of it, but in the same way any sex act can get tiring. I think the lack of a penetrate aspect makes many believe it's not 'real sex'. For many men, I guess they can put themselves in the situation - a lot of lesbian porn involve also involves men and threesomes.etc. Two women will make out and maybe do other things before the man will arrive.
I think it's different to gay sex, partly because of the penetrative aspect (of course both gays and lesbians can do other things like oral), but yes there are many guys who are really turned on by it but who are homophobic towards gay men and even real lesbians. When i was a teen I used to think I was a weirdo for liking lesbian porn (I thought it was a fetish thing) but later realised how mainstream it is. Not sure how unusual I am, but I think as porn has got mainstream lesbian porn has become mainstream and has been lumped in with 'straight' porn (the irony, I know).
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