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Old 04-10-2013, 08:27 PM
 
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I read about that idea and try to see it in real life. If bartender is 9-10/10 girl it is not so many people at bar if any. It is busy if bartender is average looking female or male. Accurse it is possible check only from Sunday to Wednesday. I check at a few bars. I went Sunday to Wednesday in row. It is always same. And funniest ting is that even older guys that have nothing to do with good looking young girls are intimidated too.
I think reason is that man feel that he should try something if alone with 10/10 bartender, tm should out of comfort zone. So poor good looking female bar tenders cannot build critical mass. People do not want sit alone with them.
Exceptions are non chain bars where good looking bartenders “flirt” with customers. Then is busy there.
Point is because of this new generation that are intimidated by good looking women I must look ugly bartenders everywhere. I know a bar that I liked to go because a 10/10 worked there. She was fired because not enough customers when she work. Now there is a male. Bar chain had right, better visit now.
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Old 04-10-2013, 08:48 PM
 
Location: The Mitten
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It is pretty intimidating if the bartender or server is attractive. For me, I just sit there, get my beer, drink and move on. Why does a good looking bartender have to destroy my night?
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Old 04-10-2013, 09:12 PM
 
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Hmmm...that's interesting. I would think it to be different.

Drowning sorrows while being comforted by a hot gal or even just being served by one would be nice. Idk.
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Old 04-10-2013, 10:14 PM
 
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Uhhhh, what?


I only recall seeing super attractive female bartenders in clubs. I don't think I've even seen an extremely attractive female bartender at a neighborhood bar or pub. I don't think it has anything to do with men being intimidated by them. My theory is that most of the patrons don't go to these places for eye candy or to try and pick up the bartender. They go to hang out and shoot the sh*t with the neighbors and the staff. In my experience, male bartenders are usually better bartenders anyway, meaning they provide the right amount of attention without hovering and they rarely pull an attitude with me. The worst by far have been female bartenders both in a lack of competence and attitude.

Bartending in neighborhood bars is all about building rapport with your customers and extremely attractive bartenders are just going to cause all sorts of dissonance in that scene. And imagine how a woman would feel with a bar full of intoxicated guys eyeing her up and down with one thing on their minds. In a club, where the patrons are usually young and actually there for eye candy, there are tons of hot bartenders but they aren't really the center of attention so to speak.
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Old 04-10-2013, 10:21 PM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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Being intimidated just because a woman is attractive is sad.
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Old 04-10-2013, 10:24 PM
 
Location: Pa
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No I put up a front and stare them down. Lol
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Old 04-10-2013, 10:34 PM
 
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Hmmm...that's interesting. I would think it to be different.

Drowning sorrows while being comforted by a hot gal or even just being served by one would be nice. Idk.
That's usually how it goes, I think.

Wasn't there a thread on staring but not approaching not long ago too?
There is something to it. People just like to look.
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Old 04-10-2013, 11:22 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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I wish that people would learn what proof was
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Old 04-11-2013, 12:23 AM
 
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I wish that people would learn what proof was
This thread is useless without pics.
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Old 04-11-2013, 01:09 AM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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