Dating Turned into Excuses or Legit? (married, guy, kiss, call)
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My guy's dad is a director, producer, and writer, and my guy has been helping his dad as an assisant director for this new film over the past few days. So him and I have not talked for about 4 days until now, which was today and he says he's still busy with his dad's film and now his friend is having my guy be a co-director for his own project. I've heard from others that this guy is making exuces and is blowing me off like no tomorrow and I should just cut him off and move on.
But on our last date we kissed and he says he really likes me and wanted to know if I felt the same way and I do. I don't know what to do or what to believe. But him and I have been dating for a month and been on 4 dates. This week is our 5th week of knowing each other and suppose to be our 5th date but nothing has been set up due to him being busy with these projects.
It's only been 4 dates. It's not a relationship. So it's premature for your friends (or whoever) to be tsk-tsk-ing about him blowing you off, as if it's a relationship and he's stringing you along or seeing others behind your back. Time will tell where he's at with you.
Well how can I tell where he's at with me? Last time we went on our 4th date, he did say he was really into me and wanted to know if it was mutual and I said yes. And I do believe he's been busy with these projects and he did tell me no one else has been talking to him and he had my eyes on me only. But then again part of keeps thinking things are going to fall apart.
Well how can I tell where he's at with me? Last time we went on our 4th date, he did say he was really into me and wanted to know if it was mutual and I said yes. And I do believe he's been busy with these projects and he did tell me no one else has been talking to him and he had my eyes on me only. But then again part of keeps thinking things are going to fall apart.
There's not much you can do but wait it out. We can speculate, but we can't know for sure. Has he not even texted you since he got busy?
If he has told you he is really into you, then he probably is. He might be lying, but he might not be. Wait and see what happens over the next month.
Maybe suggest a quick lunch date or something like that where you can meet him near his job and hang out with him on his break. Another thing you can do is if he is too tired to go out after work and just wants to stay home and watch a movie, maybe you can go over his place and hang out with him?
If he has told you he is really into you, then he probably is. He might be lying, but he might not be. Wait and see what happens over the next month.
Maybe suggest a quick lunch date or something like that where you can meet him near his job and hang out with him on his break. Another thing you can do is if he is too tired to go out after work and just wants to stay home and watch a movie, maybe you can go over his place and hang out with him?
I'm thinking if they're working on a film project, it's probably not a 9-5 gig. It's probably the kind of thing that takes over their lives until it's done. They probably work weekends, too. Still, if he's into her, he'd find time to at least text.
It's only been 4 dates. It's not a relationship. So it's premature for your friends (or whoever) to be tsk-tsk-ing about him blowing you off, as if it's a relationship and he's stringing you along or seeing others behind your back. Time will tell where he's at with you.
Nah man. Some people call it a relationship very soon. I heard one story - this couple was living together within one month, married within three, and are still together after 15 or so years.
Then you have the type who just likes to date and date and date for over a year before making a decision.
It depends on the people involved and whether they have a problem with ambiguity or not.
Personally, I'd want to know pretty early on...few dates at most.
But this isn't about me - it's up to the OP.
However, if the OP feels the same, it's definitely not too early. Again, every couple is different. There have been couples who called themselves in a relationship much sooner and then much later as I said. If you feel the same, go ahead and bring it up with him.
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