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Old 04-16-2013, 10:36 AM
 
Location: North Carolina
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Hang in there.
Thanks I am really trying. Just tired of disappointment
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Old 04-16-2013, 10:54 AM
 
Location: North Carolina
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I know right!!!! I even think phones are bad too!!!

I thought I knew someone really well through umpteen phone calls and hours of talking.

Boy was I wrong!!!

Face to face interaction and chemistry is the ONLY way I will promote.
I agree about face to face. Face to face is best but I also get a completely different feel texting a person and talking to them over the phone.
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Old 04-16-2013, 10:56 AM
 
Location: North Carolina
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To the OP, I'm a guy who dates quite a bit and refuse to talk on the phone. I only talk to my mom and my brother on the phone.

A lot of people don't like it, but hey.. do what's best for you. I've had one girl that really bothered, I said she's free to go... and she did

Other than that, no one has had a problem that I don't talk on the phone.
That's fine for someone I already know or want to just date casually.
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Old 04-16-2013, 11:04 AM
 
Location: North Carolina
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Don't get too hung up on the texting and how long it takes him to reply. Sounds like he just wanted to say hello and stay in touch with you. I'd reply but I'd let him take the lead on asking you out again. Nothing is better for getting to know someone than face to face interaction. I think it's okay to go out a couple times a week and not talk much if at all inbetween those dates. That's the way it used to be and people still dated and go to know one another. The expectation people have to stay in constant communication and get instant replies to their texts puts way too much pressure on getting to know someone IMO.
I'm sure your right. I just noticed the texts were the same boring texts everyday. Maybe I am just expecting too much. I was definitely glad he texted me.

I texted him last night and normally he texts me every day before work but not today. I just got used to that. I guess I shouldn't just automatically assume bad stuff. I'm sure he has stuff to do too.
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Old 04-16-2013, 11:08 AM
 
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I'm sure your right. I just noticed the texts were the same boring texts everyday. Maybe I am just expecting too much. I was definitely glad he texted me.

I texted him last night and normally he texts me every day before work but not today. I just got used to that. I guess I shouldn't just automatically assume bad stuff. I'm sure he has stuff to do too.
You should make it unboring. Spice it up! A playful, saucy message might give him an opening to send you something different.
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Old 04-16-2013, 01:55 PM
 
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You should make it unboring. Spice it up! A playful, saucy message might give him an opening to send you something different.
You mean SEXTING??!!
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Old 04-16-2013, 02:05 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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You should make it unboring. Spice it up! A playful, saucy message might give him an opening to send you something different.

hahahahah when I did online dating, I got a lot of those!

When I'd stop texting or lose interest in someone for whatever reason.. I'd wake up to pics in lingerie, pictures of the boobs etc etc..
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Old 04-16-2013, 02:09 PM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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You should make it unboring. Spice it up! A playful, saucy message might give him an opening to send you something different.
Please don't do this. It will make you seem desperate.
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Old 04-16-2013, 02:14 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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Please don't do this. It will make you seem desperate.
Yeah not happening...
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Old 04-16-2013, 02:44 PM
 
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You mean SEXTING??!!
Um... no! If you think a playful text is sexting, then you need not do it.
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