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Old 04-16-2013, 02:48 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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Um... no! If you think a playful text is sexting, then you need not do it.
Lmao

Maybe I'm not boring him. I know for sure he's boring me.
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Old 04-16-2013, 05:00 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Any suggestions or feelings. We only went out once. Am I making a big deal out of nothing?
i do think you're making too much out of it. some people just don't like to text or can be a little quiet in general sometimes. if he hadn't contacted you at all, then i'd worry

make more plans to hang in person and see how it goes. good luck
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Old 04-16-2013, 05:29 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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i do think you're making too much out of it. some people just don't like to text or can be a little quiet in general sometimes. if he hadn't contacted you at all, then i'd worry

make more plans to hang in person and see how it goes. good luck
I'm still feeling some kind of way today. I texted him last night but haven't heard anything from him all day. He usually text me every morning before work so I don't know what's up. I think he has a game tonight so I hadn't planned on contacting him. Not sure if I would anyway.

He did text me yesterday morning but I don't know.

I would really like to go out with him again but he needs to ask me.
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Old 04-16-2013, 06:29 PM
 
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I'm still feeling some kind of way today. I texted him last night but haven't heard anything from him all day. He usually text me every morning before work so I don't know what's up. I think he has a game tonight so I hadn't planned on contacting him. Not sure if I would anyway.

He did text me yesterday morning but I don't know.

I would really like to go out with him again but he needs to ask me.
I agree with the other poster. You should take a step back and not think about it so much. It's great that you're putting in the effort, but you can't really hold your breath after a date or two with someone from a site like POF.
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Old 04-16-2013, 07:16 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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I agree with the other poster. You should take a step back and not think about it so much. It's great that you're putting in the effort, but you can't really hold your breath after a date or two with someone from a site like POF.
Your right... I'm going to try not to worry about it and see what happens.
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Old 04-16-2013, 09:24 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I'm still feeling some kind of way today. I texted him last night but haven't heard anything from him all day. He usually text me every morning before work so I don't know what's up. I think he has a game tonight so I hadn't planned on contacting him. Not sure if I would anyway.

He did text me yesterday morning but I don't know.

I would really like to go out with him again but he needs to ask me.

This is kind of the problem I see and have with dating. People worrying about this stuff. Do whatever without worrying and without inhibition.

If you want to see him, invite him. He could vey well be thinking the same thing. It's quite possible he doesn't think you're into him.
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Old 04-17-2013, 06:06 AM
 
Location: Canada
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This is kind of the problem I see and have with dating. People worrying about this stuff. Do whatever without worrying and without inhibition.

If you want to see him, invite him. He could vey well be thinking the same thing. It's quite possible he doesn't think you're into him.
I thought the same thing. They've had one date already, so if she'd like to see him again, why is she waiting for an invitation? Sending generic texts with no future plans in sight seems pointless to me. If I want to make idle chitchat, I'll text my mom.
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Old 04-17-2013, 07:27 AM
 
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Well he finally text me back 2 1/2 hours later.
What's the problem with that? Not everyone has time to text back immediately. I certainly don't, even to someone I'm interested in. I have a life...a very full one, and it doesn't stop so that I can text someone back within their "ideal" time frame. He did text you back. And you said you had good conversation, and a fun time. Stop overanalyzing and obsessing...just relax, and sit back and see what happens. Relax!
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Old 04-17-2013, 03:35 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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Your right it wasn't a big deal. It just seems different already. Initially we had really good conversations and he at least text everyday. I didn't hear from him at all yesterday so I text him this morning.

I'm just getting the feeling he's not that interested anymore I know it is what it is. I just wonder why and why text me after the date if he's not interested.
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Old 04-17-2013, 03:47 PM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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Your right it wasn't a big deal. It just seems different already. Initially we had really good conversations and he at least text everyday. I didn't hear from him at all yesterday so I text him this morning.

I'm just getting the feeling he's not that interested anymore I know it is what it is. I just wonder why and why text me after the date if he's not interested.
I've always been able to feel it when someone loses interest in me. It does hurt your feelings when you like someone and want to see them again and they flake out. It's disappointing. Just try not to let it get you down.
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